I would have left for home already but I need to have the next 5-10 years of my life planned out satisfactory to my parents liking before I could be welcomed back by both parents. If I did go back, I would be asked and pressured to make life long plans for things I had no answers to. I could live with my parents for maybe 3 months, max, until everything was too much to bear. Even when I work and save, that wouldn't be enough for my family.
I hadn't thought about the trapping part. However, that is something I now acknowledge and need to look out for. Push comes to shove and I have money saved up, I can move out with a friend untill I find another job but that will not be for another 6 months
Try letting your husband know that you weren't trying to accuse him and that you only asked him because it had to come from somewhere and it's as random to you as it was to him. It just sounds like you were covering the potential reasons why someone would toss that on to you.
I like this but I would improve it…”I found you sexual conversations with (name). You are in violation of our prenup and I will be invoking through our lawyer. If you want to stay in this relationship you will pay per the agreement without argument and you will enter counseling immediately. “
Tell me you've never had a long term relationship without telling me.
Because after 7 years and him doing exactly what she feared, she deserves to have her moment of closure. She's finally ready to move on and this was closing the door.
He didn't tell you immediately because he knew you'd react exactly like this over something that is literally fucking nothing. Proving you know you did something wrong or you need a councilor because your paranoid as fuck.
Well it seems that you already know what you should do.
The fact that you are asking us to advise you to be a lying deceitful cunt shows us you have no intention of being honourable.
There is no advice we can give. Fuck off.
Bruh she is doing you a godly favor by breaking up with you so you don’t have to deal with that. You are dodging a major bullet
I would have left for home already but I need to have the next 5-10 years of my life planned out satisfactory to my parents liking before I could be welcomed back by both parents. If I did go back, I would be asked and pressured to make life long plans for things I had no answers to. I could live with my parents for maybe 3 months, max, until everything was too much to bear. Even when I work and save, that wouldn't be enough for my family.
I hadn't thought about the trapping part. However, that is something I now acknowledge and need to look out for. Push comes to shove and I have money saved up, I can move out with a friend untill I find another job but that will not be for another 6 months
This is just the beginning.
Try letting your husband know that you weren't trying to accuse him and that you only asked him because it had to come from somewhere and it's as random to you as it was to him. It just sounds like you were covering the potential reasons why someone would toss that on to you.
She recognizes his talent and thinks he is better than her at that age/stage…converting that to thinking he will be better than her?
I like this but I would improve it…”I found you sexual conversations with (name). You are in violation of our prenup and I will be invoking through our lawyer. If you want to stay in this relationship you will pay per the agreement without argument and you will enter counseling immediately. “
Consequences.
I would be like, “dude, you have fish breath and unibrow- I wouldn't be critiquing others right now…”
Or, ” Kindly keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself as it is jerky for you to open your mouth”
You are trying to debate with narrow minded shallow twats. Need to be firm and express your boundary against their verbal shits.
Well of course ChatGPT is on ChatGPT’s side..
Tell me you've never had a long term relationship without telling me.
Because after 7 years and him doing exactly what she feared, she deserves to have her moment of closure. She's finally ready to move on and this was closing the door.
He didn't tell you immediately because he knew you'd react exactly like this over something that is literally fucking nothing. Proving you know you did something wrong or you need a councilor because your paranoid as fuck.