Girl, 4 years no sex.. you’re a saint! He needs therapy, and you need to tell him straight, if he doesn’t fix this, then you can’t continue. Good lucks
That's a bummer, guy. Seriously. Sucks. Thankfully it was just early into a new and therefore meaningless relationship. But you are now in fact a cheater. Are you the worst human who ever lived? Hardly. You'll get past this, but this current relationship? Over.
Tell her, apologize, and then move on with your life and make the promise with yourself never to be such a moron ever again. To be honest I can't really relate, I've literally never done anything I didn't want to do when drunk, and I certainly wouldn't put myself in a situation which is just a recipe for mistakes and regret if I thought I WAS the kind of guy to do so.
“It was just a drunken mistake” sounds like such a cop out usually when people hear it. “My finger slipped and accidently went up her vagina” sounds about as compelling as “woops accidentally landed on his dick”.
Here's what happened. You WANTED to finger-bang the stripper. So you did.
Listen, whatever, I'm not going to keep kicking you while you're down, but you messed up, you know you did, we know you did, and if you have any respect for this girlfriend of yours, you'll let HER know you did.
Then break up, go cold turkey no contact, and move on with your lives. Chalk it up to a life lesson learned, and next time never put yourself in such precarious situations if you're with someone.
No. No, no, no. It was NOT a romantic getaway. It was a “romantical trip”. There’s a big difference so obviously OP is not in the wrong. /s
& so should you, but here we are
Why aren’t you going also?
Girl, 4 years no sex.. you’re a saint! He needs therapy, and you need to tell him straight, if he doesn’t fix this, then you can’t continue. Good lucks
This is f-ing crazy. Sounds like there’s some mental disease or narcissism in your family.
That's a bummer, guy. Seriously. Sucks. Thankfully it was just early into a new and therefore meaningless relationship. But you are now in fact a cheater. Are you the worst human who ever lived? Hardly. You'll get past this, but this current relationship? Over.
Tell her, apologize, and then move on with your life and make the promise with yourself never to be such a moron ever again. To be honest I can't really relate, I've literally never done anything I didn't want to do when drunk, and I certainly wouldn't put myself in a situation which is just a recipe for mistakes and regret if I thought I WAS the kind of guy to do so.
“It was just a drunken mistake” sounds like such a cop out usually when people hear it. “My finger slipped and accidently went up her vagina” sounds about as compelling as “woops accidentally landed on his dick”.
Here's what happened. You WANTED to finger-bang the stripper. So you did.
Listen, whatever, I'm not going to keep kicking you while you're down, but you messed up, you know you did, we know you did, and if you have any respect for this girlfriend of yours, you'll let HER know you did.
Then break up, go cold turkey no contact, and move on with your lives. Chalk it up to a life lesson learned, and next time never put yourself in such precarious situations if you're with someone.
You need to completely ghost him. Tell him, if you wish, that you're not happy with this relationship and that you'd prefer no contact.
And stay no contact.