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Alice and Lin (fansly. com/ Lingoody, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 19, 2022
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I don’t know if you realize what you’re up against. Saying this as an addict with 9 months of recovery.
So she can say what she wants, but you can't. She sounds like an intelligent and entitled cunt
There's a difference between meeting someone out and about, and your baby interacting with the person then, and that person moving in and having 24/7 access to your son.
You may go shopping and your son might have a cute baby-talk interaction with the cashier, but you wouldn't invite that cashier to then on-line with you, would you? Your son meeting your bf outside is irrelevant, that's not what people mean when they're saying you introduced your bf to your son too early. They mean, that's way too early for him to be around your son regularly as in daily etc, in a 'parental role'. 3 months is way too soon to know if he's safe enough to have around your son so consistently.
Him having a jam session in the park with your kid is kinda weird, but that isn't 'problematic'. That is just a surface level meeting, outdoors, where you could monitor the whole time and meeting someone so briefly won't even register with your son at that age. However having someone moving in to live! with him so soon, absolutely will. You couldn't monitor him 24/7 in that situation. You can't protect your son in that situation, the way you could when he met him in the park
What will make me actually leave?
At this point it just seems like this is going to go on until someone dies from all that sped up aging from emotional/mental stress. It is your life and your choice. Right now you have a choice to stay toxic and live miserably or get out and heal and build back some nontoxicity in your own life.
Oh then call him or wait til the next time y’all meet up and tell him you panicked and that you do want to be bf/gf.
It's hard to leave. It's never easy. You are here trying to work through the emotions of leaving. You already know you want to leave. Sometimes people grow apart, especially when getting together so young. (And especially when there was a power dynamic imbalance, you are just starting to feel now, because now you are growing old enough and wise enough and have started gaining enough of a sense of self, enough to notice).
This was always a bad relationship, you're just noticing now. You know how I know? All those little things you peppered into your description, like you babied him, etc. It's always been bad, and you have always been bending over backwards and contorting yourself into uncomfortable levels. It's never a long term sustainable thing to live! like that, and you are capable of growth and building wisdom, so you definitely won't be able to continue living like that.
There's a litmus test to relationships, you can compromise, you can work on things, but there's a level where you're asking or need to ask someone to change too much to essentially contort themselves for you to be comfortable in that relationship. That's an example that you don't fit together. Your lives don't align.
You feel afraid to leave, you feel like you won't get better than him? That's an example he's been chipping away at your confidence. You can find better and you should never settle for less than a partner that lifts you up. I think this relationship is way more abusive than you realise. I would suggest you take time to be alone and really focus on building up your sense of self, self worth and confidence before entering into another relationship or it will end up being the same miserable relationship you're in now, but just with another person.
You only get one life, live! it to its fullest, don't shut yourself away in a dank existence, things in the world are very hot enough, this is something you can change! Build a better you. Become comfortable with your own company so you don't need a partner, you just want a partner. Take yourself through this life and treat yourself as you would a dear loved one, show yourself the best time, be kind, look after yourself first, that way you have a more solid base to give to others, anyway. Enrich this existence as much as you possibly can. You owe that to yourself. It's not an easy road, it sounds easy, building a better you, but it's not easy to rewrite the script you have been following your whole life, and move outside your current comfort zones. It's naked at first, really hard! But it's a path to a way better life.
Leave, you know you want to. Walk through that fire and come out brighter on the other side. Believe in you.