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  1. Nothing about that question was casual or genuine. It was a purposeful setup to make a dig at you. Why? To knock you off balance and take your self-esteem down a notch. Or perhaps to pick a fight for the same purpose. It’s a power play. If he was simply losing interest he wouldn’t be going out of his way to be cruel.

    How do you behave after he asks you these weird questions, or this question in particular? Do you maybe (consciously or unconsciously) put in extra effort to please him, to be more compliant with things he wants/likes, seek validation, approval, or attention from him, or otherwise fuss over him?

    Whatever you’re doing is exactly what he’s seeking from this. The solution is…do the opposite. Remove the emotion “payoff” for him. Whatever little charge or behavior from you he’s getting from this, stop giving it to him and give him what he DOESN’T want.

    If you’ve been reacting as above, a good alternate response would be, “wow. That’s pretty rude and unnecessary. Not sure why you think I would stick around and take that shit from you , but you’re mistaken. Have a good night” And then stop talking, grab your purse, and fucking leave. Calmly, but immediately. Then DO NOT answer any call or text from him for at least 24hrs. If he texts, don’t even read it.

    Truth is, this isn’t heading anywhere good. It’s unlikely you’ll “fix” this, or him. But one step at a time…react better in the moment. He’s starting some sort of negging campaign with you to gain an upperhand in the relationship or control over you now that he thinks he has you “hooked”.

  2. The only healthy way to go about this is clear communication. It's okay if you don't feel comfortable asking them outright on the first or second date tho. Dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable, and when the time comes, bring your concerns up if you notice any red flags. It's honestly pretty lame to make such assumptions in the first place, I mean I'm pretty sure you wouldn't feel too good if you found out that your date thinks you are this shallow. I totally understand why the guy got upset.

  3. This is probably the source of me wanting to propose.

    As a wife, getting married because you're insecure is a terrible reason. Getting married won't stop you from feeling insecure, nor will it make your relationship unbreakable. My husband and met when were 17/18, dated throughout college and got engaged during our graduation weekend. We were then engaged for 2 more years before getting married, for a total of 6 years of being together before marriage, and have been married for 10 years. We are not more committed to each other bc we are married, we are just committed in different ways.

    You seem to think that getting married is a guaranteed permanency and will fix your psychological/mental/emotional concerns, which it will not do. You need to work on those issues through counselling and other support- because otherwise it will seep into your marriage and cause tension leading to a breakdown. A ring isn't a problem solver.

  4. You need to do a lot of self-reflection. You don’t seem to care at all about your former friend or his feelings despite knowing him your entire life. Your friendships are over. Your friends were right to turn on you. Why on earth would they want to be friends with someone who sleeps with their girlfriends not once but multiple times?

    Bro you need to get some boundaries. Some lines shouldn’t be crossed. It’s ok for you to not get everything you want and for others to have nice things. Grow up, admit that you’re a bad person who does bad things, and only then can you change as a person. Then you can work to start new relationships and learn to respect those around you. But I honestly doubt you will. You seem to have no conscience.

  5. No, you left the other sub because you didn't hear what you WANTED to hear, but what everyone is saying is true. YOU are the problem and from both your posts, the only one lacking any empathy here, is YOU.

    It doesn't matter what is or isn't normal in your country. That doesn't affect her experiences or feelings and all you do is dismiss both and the BIGGEST PROBLEM YOU HAVE is that she stopped supporting you financially.

    Your post and replies show you really don't care about the actual relationship, or your daughter. You want her to conform to your cultural norms like a puppet. Just like your son.

    If you care about her AT ALL, take the advice given here and take responsibility for how your actions affected her life and give her ALL the credit for succeeding DESPITE your treatment of her. Make no mistake YOU didn't inspire her to do better, she did better to get away from you and her traumatic childhood. Apologize sincerely and do your best to be the person she needs now.

    Or don't and never speak to her again. Never know your grandchildren. The choice is entirely yours.

  6. Oh buddy. You are his side piece. Because here we are again with a fucked up age gap.

    There is no reason for a 39 year old to be interested in a 25 year old. I mean not to pick on you, but what could be possible see in you??? Your life stages are so wildly incompatible. I’m 30 and I would hesitate to date you.

    Please don’t throw away your 20s being a side piece. He just wants to fuck you, he isn’t busy with work he most likely has bloody kids.

    Just go read this sub mate. See how many women throw their lives away for trash with these crazy age gaps. Don’t be the same.

    When you are 39, I hope you look back and see how fucked up this was.

  7. I'm glad to hear that, was starting to wonder if something I said could be misunderstood and I get your point 100%, was wondering about it as well while I was reading all about him constantly begging her for nudes.

  8. Compromise. You are Smith. He is Jones.

    You go with jones-smith. He goes with smith-jones. If your country allows that kind of thing.

  9. So basically he is telling you that your wants are not important to him. So now that you know, he should be an ex-boyfriend.

    Someone who wants to be with you and respects your relationship enough would be willing to do things you like WITH YOU!

    You aren’t being dramatic- he is gaslighting you. Be careful

  10. I'm really scared about this aspect of it as I feel like he has more to offer the friendship group than me and I'm worried if it comes down to a choice I'll be the one that loses. I work full time, have kids and don't have much time or money to be fun where as he is available and fun all the time, I don't think they'd pick me.

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