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That was 100% your manâs fault. He jumped the gun and almost paid for it and is trying to blame you for it.
Dude is married.
Without details I canât be sure, but it seems like you may have read too much into it at the beginning. She enjoyed chatting to you as friend, but nothing more. At least she was honest and upfront about it. It doesnât mean youâre not cool or fun or good-looking. She just didnât see it going any further. I know you flew into town, but instead of getting details from friends of friends, you shouldâve just asked her directly about how she feels.
Don't combine finances / bank accounts with him, that's for sure. Home should be in your name only.
There are really nice people who are terrible with finances. You can love them and even help them a bit but don't trust them to do good in the area they are worst.
Don't know where you live! right ow but in Arabia women have less rights. This guy is trying to control you and your kid.
It's not just “looking”, it's staring and gawking and objectification. It doesn't feel good and it makes you feel like less of a person. It's completely understandable for it to be affecting her in this way
Happy birthday!
Your bf is being a twat. His âlogicâ is so flawed itâs a joke.
Sounds like heâs looking for an excuse to leave you. He may even want a relationship with V now sheâs single again which she wasnât when you two got together.
Iâd leave him to whatever stupidity his brain is focussed on.
Idk what to do we are new to this relationship heâs not even my real boyfriend yet and heâs acting like this he was already showing signs but he completely yelled at me tonight and then heâs like you know what I totally over reacted you donât need to do all that stuff etc like suddenly taking what he said back
You're not leaving anyone behind. you're choosing to continue the relationship you already have in the way you want, if they cut you off then it's on them
Sexism is fanservice?
Your husband is being an asshole in the way he's communicating to you, but you're also being RIDICULOUSLY irrational about fear of pregnancy. The tubes the carry the egg to the uterus are literally severed or blocked. How they hell is that egg supposed to get to the uterus? Unless you have the ability to walk through walls, chill out with your irrational fears.
Secondly, it sounds like you have more complicated fabrics weaved into your situation, but I would be so let down of my only sexual future withy partner was to put condoms on every time. Like, it's your choice, but it's his choice of he wants to stay with you and on-line like that. Sex with a condom feels more like a simulation than having sex “raw”. It's necessary in a pinch for pregnancy disease prevention, but it's extremely limiting in the satisfaction department.
If my wife adopted a stance that required a condom every time, I'd either ask her permission for me to find a extramarital safe-sex partner. If she said no I'd probably leave the marriage and divorce my wife. It's that big of a deal, to me at least. And I don't think I'm alone I'm that feeling. If he stays with you he's just going to be growing an enormous reservoir of resentment towards you until he, gasp starts acting like an asshole all the time. Resentment is dangerously toxic and is as easy to clean away as crude-oil spill.
Both of you need to go to couple's therapy over this, or your marriage may head un an irreversible direction that leads to the end of your relationship. It's my guess that your husband has been torn between wanting to be with you and also wanting to find sexual happiness. He doesn't want to leave, but as he's torn, he's already begun to resent you. When it comes to resentment, it's not realistically possible to just “not feel that way” or to “will it away”. It doesn't work that way. Resentment comes from core value sorts of feelings that are part of who we are since birth. So, your marriage needs triage and it needs it ASAP.
Yep, heâs using you. Iâm sorry. Iâve been in that position before. Thereâs a reason why heâs your ex, keep it that way.
If youâre both âusingâ each other to have sex and itâs nice and comfortable, ok. But itâs making you feel sad, like youâre getting taken advantage of or making you want more, put a stop to it right now.
Dump his ass. Not all men are like that, youâve just had unfortunate luck. You do NOT deserve to be treated like that and if you take him back, heâll do it again and say oh itâs just sex not love. Kick him to the curb and be on your own for a while. Take care.
Ooooo. The parents point is good.
Waste of your time and life, set him free. You are wasting time and energy for nothing. He's a liar and full of BS!!! Get out of your emotions and walk away
start looking for a new BF
I would recommend only inviting people you genuinely have a relationship and connection with. This way, the day will be more fun, relaxed and affordable, instead of feeling like you're running around trying to hold a party for everyone else but yourselves.
” I can see this causing a lot of drama with other extended family members”- Honestly? Screm 'em. The smaller you keep a party, the more you can also rationalize cutting people out. And if people resent you for stuff like this? They're not worth continuing pursuing relationships with.
Your wedding day should be about you both, not other people. I dealt with some similar issues when I got married, and our solution was to hold our wedding on a small tropical island (just the 2 of us) and then hold a wedding reception for a small circle of friends and family after we had gotten home from our honeymoon. This kept things considerably more stress-free (wedding day was perfect and being on the island, we got to start our honeymoon immediately afterwards) and afterwards, a lot of people commented on how they wish they'd done their wedding our way too.
This is some serious mental gymnastics. Careful you don't pull something…jfc
He's probably not going to stop. Seven years is a long time and makes it complicated but god forbid they have a kid. You're probably right that you're not the only one and STDs/STIs often go unnoticed in women especially when they think they're in a monogamous relationship until they cause irreversible damage. If you tell her with proof and she doesn't believe you or chooses to stay then that's on her. It almost seems like you have to tell her.
It has happened with other stuff regarding dates, times and also just casual conversation not everything regarding the past or present, I will say, however, ever since we met each other, we have toned down our partying lifestyles. What Iâm referring to on the going out has only been on one occasion and it was before a friend of hers got married, We have talked extensively about this before and she understands where Iâm coming from because a lot of it makes me uncomfortable and she has acknowledged and then careful and respectful about it. These things will just always stick in the back of my mind regardless of what changes.
What was the lie?
White lies are often socially acceptable and even expected.
Coworker: How's your day going? (truth is he doesn't care) You: OK (truth is, it was shitty but this guy is the last person you want to discuss it with)
Other lies may fall into a gray area if they are about subjects that you haven't earned her trust about. Her relationships with other people are a good example. You've been talking with her 1 week. The amount of trust you've earned in that week is almost nothing and anything of a sensitive nature she isn't going to talk to you about because you could be a jerk and blab it all over the internet or uses it against her in some way. If some subjects come up, she isn't going to tip you off that something juicy is below the surface, she will lie.
What the lie was about matters.
Hang up.
Ok, sounding extreme aside, what does she want to do? At least half the time she can spend it with you while you play?
I went fishing with a friend and his wife came along, she was preparing his lines and I asked if she grew up fishing, she said no I googled it so I could fish with him ( her husband ) and share this experience , itâs a beautiful thing that.
I think you're very naive. Have you been to a rave? They touching add them drugs that's a guarantee
Whatsapp and Viber do this both (I use both), I think telegram had the option, but I'm not sure. I never used it. It's a PITA to keep deleting stuff every now and then off my phone, but can't risk turning it off since I get texted valuable info through media and files.
He blocked me on everything. I keep reaching out on TextNow.( which ik is really stupid and probably pathetic) i just canât help it. I need to understand why it ended.
Hot disagree. His gf is firmly planted in the full-on idiot phase.
Know that you did nothing wrong. This is on him. He took advantage of you and maintained this emotional relationship to get close enough to you so you would sleep with him. He sounds like he either doesn't know what he wants, or he just likes to play games with people. Either way, it's not a reflection on you.
I think you should get tested again.
I think you should get tested again.
So you BF cheated. You emotionally cheated.
Are you still in contact with the new guy?
This relationship has run its course.
I wouldnât say 2nd choice because his ex has been trying to connect with him for months now, texting him and getting nothing in return. He said he feels the need to do that in order to really close everything that was left unsaid and be totally free for me but yeah, probably I should move on
He insists on comforting me when what heâs doing isnât comforting at all and itâs actually making me feel worse
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This is going to be a long post and I thank everyone who takes the time to read it.
My fiancĂ©e was sad that she wouldn't get a bachelorette party. She just doesn't have any childhood friends, it has to do with the fact that when she was a little girl, her dad died in an accident, debts, she was alwayys poor girl at school…. you get the picture. Anyway, I have two friends, since kindergarten. One is married , we'll call his wife Sophia – the other has a fiancĂ©e- we'll call her Lucy.
Two months ago I was sitting with these friends having wine and I mentioned that my fiancée wasn't going to have any bachelorette party. I asked if they would like to come to my fiancée and do her bachelorette party. The whole thing was rather in a funny vein, so I wouldn't have expected anyone to take this seriously.
For the record. They know my fiancĂ©e – Sophie met her before Lucy, and with Lucy and my friend we were been on holiday together. A month ago my fiancĂ©e was added to a group chat where they wrote to her saying they would come and do a bachelorette party for her. Anyway, my fiancĂ©e planned the whole program, they didn't reply to anything only Sophie wrote – I want to go here and there as if the farewell was about her.
They were originally supposed to arrive by train at night and leave the next day. When asked if they at least had tickets and when they would be arriving then, Sophie wrote that they'd probably arrive and leave the same day because she has no way of getting on a train at midnight – which is a complete bizarre – her husband has a car and doesn't do any nights out, they on-line with their parents where there are two other cars in the household, with the added bonus that she herself is an active driver.
My fiancée was obviously unhappy about this because it was more like they wanted to take a trip, they didn't care about anything, Sophia was looking for ways to leave as soon as possible and that why don't they want to get to know her better then. Anyway, the night before they were due to arrive last night my fiancée had absolutely cleaned and prepared the flat for their arrival. She prepared cosmetic packages for them where she hand sewed the flower wrappers. You can probably imagine how much time it took her. During the day, she sked what they would like to have for breakfast at our house, so we bought lactose-free and protein-free foods.
Guess what happened the night before, the morning of their arrival? An hour before the train left, Sophia texted that her daughter is sick so she wasn't going anywhere. Her daughter is 4 years old and every time my friend doesn't want to go anywhere their child mysteriously gets sick. Of course they online in the house with their parents and there is a husband at home. What absolutely angered me is that Sophia in that group chat said to Lucy that she was sorry she had to put off a change a shift at her job. Not to a word my fiancĂ©e…. Of course Lucia also just wrote that she wasn't coming and also didn't write that she was sorry….
My fiancĂ©e cried all night and asked me if there was something wrong with her. I'm incredibly disgusted and don't want to see them at our wedding. And I'm mad at my childhood friends too. I can't imagine if my fiancĂ©e wanted to do this that I wouldn't say anything to her… I just dont know how to process this… any tips, advice?
TLDR: The wife and fiancĂ©e of my childhood friends wanted to do a bachelorette party for my fiancĂ©e. They had my fiancĂ©e plan everything, ignored her the whole time, and cancelled at the last minute without so much as an apology – they only apologized to each other.
Cheating isnât being controlling, manipulative, and having double standards. This is no doubt terrible shitty behavior and only an excuse to fuck someone else, but itâs not cheating. If there is a break in commitment, itâs not cheating. It is however terrible and means that she can never be trusted again.
Itâs just that not all betrayals of trust are cheating, which is betraying the commitment. Calling every betrayal of trust cheating dilutes the word because itâs not accurate. Itâs much more accurate to point out that this is manipulative controlling behavior that shows the GF only wanted to fuck someone else. That is a betrayal, just not betraying a commitment because no commitment existed.
The fact that she is issuing a double standard just isnât cheating. It doesnât have to be cheating to be a massive betrayal that deserves a break up.
cheat /CHÄt/ verb gerund or present participle: cheating
be sexually unfaithful. “I wish someone had told me my partner was cheating on me”
un·faith·ful /ËÉnËfÄTHfÉl/ adjective adjective: unfaithful not faithful. engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding. “you haven't been unfaithful to him, have you?”
You screwed over your ex, so if thatâs what you were trying to do, mission accomplished.
Your Bf is a snake and your ex is better off going no contact with him.
How old is the kid?
Heres an alternate take;
He hid the fact he had a child because he knew he was a little shit. Maybe he doesnt even know what to do about the
Not likely going to work for her since most remote positions require you to hardline directly into a modem, require high speeds, and not all companies allow for travelling due to tax reasons. Some only let you work from specific states.
(Currently looking for remote work that would allow me to spit time between PA and OH so I'm very familiar with what companies require to get a fully remote position that allows for even simple travel. Some applications will be like “hold up, you gotta be within 50 miles of Bumfuck, MO to apply” or “We are currently only hiring in x, y, z states” which will greatly limit where she can travel to AND the positions she'll have as options. Also depending on her field any certifications that are state level may not transfer to other states. Example: My insurance license is only valid via reciprocation in certain states and requires all kinds of forms be completed.)
What are the struggles he feels youâre having? And why is reaching out to a stranger to talk about these things? Instead of you? Or even a trusted friend (because we all need a safe space to vent)? A hot-chick stranger who glories in collecting câąck? So much so that she made a PowerPoint presentation about it (hello? WTF?!?).
Sheâs opening the door for his potential infidelity. Not that heâll ultimately do anything, but sheâs laying her foundation. Iâm sorry.