This one is kinds hot, following a guy to a house party doesnt sound like gf actions, idk the problem is if it happens once it prob will happen again. Why is she ok having a girls night out then following guys to a party. Would she had followed them there if u were there? If the answer is no then conversations need to be had.
Call me controlling but i dont like my gf being out at night drinking with other guys without me being there, recipe for disaster…
You said it. You said we shouldnt tell you to leave him, but you said it. There is no way to make him care enough. Do you think you can go your whole life with one minute sex and no head? There are ways to solve his problem (because it's his, you just have to deal with it), and he's choosing not to.
People treat us how we allow. What you're experiencing is something you allow. Don't allow it anymore.
Doesn’t matter who makes more or pays more. It only matters that you have roughly equal free time. If she’s still doing chores or errands while you’re relaxing, socializing, or enjoying hobbies, your free time isn’t equal.
I think there are a lot of people who are richer than me that have never cooked in their lives.
Lacking basic life skills is really not very common, even among the super rich. I make enough to order from nice really every single meal, and very often do. But JFC I’m still capable of preparing a wide variety of dishes. No one taught me, it doesn’t require any classes, you just…do it. That you would claim you don’t know how, at all, is just bizarre.
If it’s something you want or need from a partner and they disregard your feelings like that ,l would suggest you seriously think about what your future together would be like. Don’t settle for less.
You're still young. You can find someone new and start fresh. Easier said than done, but I don't think this is going anywhere, and trying to save what can't be saved is only delaying the inevitable. You can still do counseling by yourself to help confirm this kind of decision and help you move forward with it, and how to get into the mindset of there being new and better adventures ahead with someone new.
You sound pretty trashy too
This is the correct answer.
This one is kinds hot, following a guy to a house party doesnt sound like gf actions, idk the problem is if it happens once it prob will happen again. Why is she ok having a girls night out then following guys to a party. Would she had followed them there if u were there? If the answer is no then conversations need to be had.
Call me controlling but i dont like my gf being out at night drinking with other guys without me being there, recipe for disaster…
You said it. You said we shouldnt tell you to leave him, but you said it. There is no way to make him care enough. Do you think you can go your whole life with one minute sex and no head? There are ways to solve his problem (because it's his, you just have to deal with it), and he's choosing not to.
People treat us how we allow. What you're experiencing is something you allow. Don't allow it anymore.
Doesn’t matter who makes more or pays more. It only matters that you have roughly equal free time. If she’s still doing chores or errands while you’re relaxing, socializing, or enjoying hobbies, your free time isn’t equal.
I think there are a lot of people who are richer than me that have never cooked in their lives.
Lacking basic life skills is really not very common, even among the super rich. I make enough to order from nice really every single meal, and very often do. But JFC I’m still capable of preparing a wide variety of dishes. No one taught me, it doesn’t require any classes, you just…do it. That you would claim you don’t know how, at all, is just bizarre.
You're in for a very very lonely life with that attitude. Hope it works out for you.
Exactly. I’ve been with my bf for 5 years and in the beginning of our relationship we agreed to not share that information because it’s not important.
First answer this question: how is your relationship with your bf? When you guys have disagreements how do you both solve them?
If it’s something you want or need from a partner and they disregard your feelings like that ,l would suggest you seriously think about what your future together would be like. Don’t settle for less.
You're still young. You can find someone new and start fresh. Easier said than done, but I don't think this is going anywhere, and trying to save what can't be saved is only delaying the inevitable. You can still do counseling by yourself to help confirm this kind of decision and help you move forward with it, and how to get into the mindset of there being new and better adventures ahead with someone new.