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AliceLevine, 26 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
AliceLevine, 26 y.o.
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?? Run. Trying to control your spiritual beliefs like that a red flaf
My recommendation is that you take a step back, focus on yourself and your own wellbeing first and foremost. Start by making simple changes to improve your physical and mental health such as eating healthier, exercising more regularly, meditating or journaling, etc. That will create long term positive changes in both your health and relationship with each other.
At the same time I encourage you to talk openly about your emotions around this issue with your wife so she can have a better understanding of what is causing it for you. Also please remember thatSexual Performance Anxiety is often caused by various factors such as boredom with sex life, low self-esteem or even stress related issues like depression which could all be managed through therapy. Without knowing the root cause for it we might find difficulty in resolving it entirely please reach out to professionals if need be who may provide better insight into the said matter that would work best for both of you!
It feels like there is too much missing here to make a full judgment and give any advice. You were invited apparently but decided not to go. He was busy and wanted to send for an Uber, in itself it is not shocking. It feels like there is more to this, events prior to your travel, that could explain his behaviour. He could be the absolute worst partner, but you could also be toxic and trying to cut him off. Honestly, impossible to say on so little.
You and your husband have a serious communication problem.
As it seems from your post, you never had a real conversation about both your needs? You were “unenthusiastic” when he mentioned his fantasies years ago and now that he mentioned it again you were quiet to see how far he will take it? You never sat down and said, “that's absolutely not my thing, I don't want to do anything like it”? Your husbands fantasy isn't a bad thing. Some couples might enjoy it. Some not.
That he talked about it outside your marriage without your clear consent is not okay, but neither is you being just passive about it.
You are desperately in need of couples therapy to learn how to communicate with each other.
feelings do not need to be justified, they are not even things that are chosen; they are things that happen to us, not a part of us.
Mad respect. I can’t even walk in heels anymore. Enjoy your new life!
I’m very confused by that answer, I thought that’s implied when you’re dating for a few months
Are you both attending individual therapy during this time to resolve whatever issues it was causing your problems? Are you actually doing any work to change and improve? If the answer is no, you’re just prolonging the end of this relationship