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Aline (long hair – trans * with penis) & Amie (short hair – non-binary * with no penis), 30 y.o.
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Date: October 16, 2022
And this is a problem for you bc …? Why don’t you mind your own business?
It’s just a first date. Who knows if they will even keep seeing each other. You don’t know the views of the guy she is going to a date with. Maybe he will have a problem with it if they ever end being in a serious exclusive relationship or maybe he won’t really care bc he knows they weren’t exclusive back then and it was just their first date. The point is you don’t know so why are you getting mad on someone else’s behalf? I personally don’t agree with her behavior and wouldn’t want to date someone with a mindset like this, but someone ppl would disagree with me.
It is his boundary. You are free to use weed. He is free to leave you. If you can't live with his boundary, you are free to leave him.
Beyond that, you can always try to reach a compromise, but it sounds like he isn't budging on his stance. Has he explained why?
Thank you for this sober analysis. I suppose I am trying to predict what she might want as opposed to understanding what she is saying in the moment. I think I just need to have a very candid conversation with her and put all our cards on the table. Either it works out or not, either way it’s conclusive.
Because it's exclusively used to refer to non-humans of a specific gender. It's literally a way of dehumanizing women.
My heart breaks for your family OP. Please seek help from professional counseling or therapy. It will help you all process this through.
I think if I were you I’d let her read this so she can see how you’re feeling. Definitely need to just talk through it no matter the outcome cause how things are right now is not gonna work
I was in your position about five years ago. Not Latin but Polish Catholic, very religious mother. I was going to church only to appease my mom. She goes to church every day and her life revolves around the community. It works for her and there is nothing wrong with those who do.
I know a lot of people here are saying “just say no” and shut her down when she asks which may work too, but this is what I did and now her and I have a good relationship.
I had to have a really tough conversation one day where I told her that I am very thankful for the life and teachings the church gave me as a kid and that it has given me some great values. However, I do not find myself pulled towards going to church every Sunday and although I respect those who do, it would be lovely to have the respect reciprocated back. I told her that I do not feel guilty whatsoever and that I can still be a good person without going to church every week. I told her that I found myself lying to her about a lot of things (like going to church) and that I no longer want to do that because I’d rather be honest with her even if it’s not what she wants to hear. Ask your mom if she would also prefer this. It was quite difficult for my mom but it was a necessary conversation that she ultimately accepted and now our relationship is really good. I am sure she would love it and hopes that I one day go back to church regularly but for the time being she doesn’t bug me about it.
Hope this helps!
I've tried so hard for a while now, and it's probably more difficult since this was my first true relationship. Anyway, I'll keep trying. I appreciate your help.