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His behavior is psychotic and when you push someone for 2 years eventually you see the reaction to it. I think he needs to stay single and the gf to find someone normal.
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Well, I gave in after saying no and trying to push a guy off of me while he cornered me on top of a roof with an 8 story fall behind me. I didn't really want to say yes, but after caving because I realized he wasn't taking no for an answer, was that really a yes anymore? I did technically give in and say yes and actively participate at that point. Somehow, saying yes seemed better than continuing to struggle and be violently raped. But the beginning was a full 2 or 3 minutes of struggling and saying no.
Staying is selfish. She deserves a partner who wants her in every way. You're keeping her tied up with you and missing a very important aspect of a relationship.
So out of curiosity,I had him take the test for Autism. The one that is actually used by medical professionals to test adults who may have been misdiagnosed of slipped through the cracks as a child. He scored 126. (I took the same test and scored a 42 in comparison) His score shows that he most likely has autism. I forgot to add he also has diagnosed bipolar, so all of this together , I am sure is causing the issues. He has some BPD behaviors but scores overall very low on actually having it, so I am guessing his bipolar,anxiety disorder combined with most likely being autistic, is creating these behaviors.
I have been telling him for months I thought he was autistic, he has a very hard time reading when people are joking, he takes everything someone says as them being serious, and he also takes everything literal, not matter what it is, he doesn't catch on to metaphors really.
“They (the nudes) were hers to do as she wished” – Gaslighting at its finest.
Someone sending you or you photographing someone in the hard, is not a complete waiver of rights to privacy. This shows you how entitled and arrogant this person truly is.
In fact, it’s the opposite. If someone sends nudes to you they are trusting you to respect their privacy, unless you signed a model’s release and you were financially compensated, you did not agree to that person posting or sharing your private pictures.
Because they get flattered by the attention from the randy old Lothario. The guy knows how to appeal to a shy girl like OP says she was and the young woman doesn't see the manipulation. She does not see herself as a child, she is tricked into thinking she is wildly desirable, smart, whatever. The old creep uses her till his true self comes out and he needs the challenge of the next sweet, young thing.
This is a guy who's still smarting from his last divorce and this will come up again and again as long as you're talking to him. He probably needs some time with a counselor to learn to trust again. At the moment he's likely not really able to look at relationships in any way that isn't utterly transactional where he's the one being taken advantage of. Maybe tell him that you feel like you and he are at different places in life and therefore aren't a great match. You don't have to tell him the total truth, that you're not yet bitter about relationships and don't want to date someone who's already decided the world is against him.
You were on a break. You were not together. It's pretty clear this relationship has run its course, and you guys probably should have just broken up, instead of trying this two-week “break” nonsense. But it's nude to move on from someone with whom we have a lot of history and emotional entanglement, even when we know it's time, and sometimes we just need that nudge to finally push us into doing the right-but-difficult thing. So maybe this other person was the nudge, and now you can finally go your separate ways. Your body is just telling you what your mind isn't ready to accept
His behavior is psychotic and when you push someone for 2 years eventually you see the reaction to it. I think he needs to stay single and the gf to find someone normal.
The amount of people who accept cheating is sad tbh
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Well, I gave in after saying no and trying to push a guy off of me while he cornered me on top of a roof with an 8 story fall behind me. I didn't really want to say yes, but after caving because I realized he wasn't taking no for an answer, was that really a yes anymore? I did technically give in and say yes and actively participate at that point. Somehow, saying yes seemed better than continuing to struggle and be violently raped. But the beginning was a full 2 or 3 minutes of struggling and saying no.
These things aren't always cut and dry.
Staying is selfish. She deserves a partner who wants her in every way. You're keeping her tied up with you and missing a very important aspect of a relationship.
So out of curiosity,I had him take the test for Autism. The one that is actually used by medical professionals to test adults who may have been misdiagnosed of slipped through the cracks as a child. He scored 126. (I took the same test and scored a 42 in comparison) His score shows that he most likely has autism. I forgot to add he also has diagnosed bipolar, so all of this together , I am sure is causing the issues. He has some BPD behaviors but scores overall very low on actually having it, so I am guessing his bipolar,anxiety disorder combined with most likely being autistic, is creating these behaviors.
I have been telling him for months I thought he was autistic, he has a very hard time reading when people are joking, he takes everything someone says as them being serious, and he also takes everything literal, not matter what it is, he doesn't catch on to metaphors really.
“They (the nudes) were hers to do as she wished” – Gaslighting at its finest.
Someone sending you or you photographing someone in the hard, is not a complete waiver of rights to privacy. This shows you how entitled and arrogant this person truly is.
In fact, it’s the opposite. If someone sends nudes to you they are trusting you to respect their privacy, unless you signed a model’s release and you were financially compensated, you did not agree to that person posting or sharing your private pictures.
Revenge porn laws were created for this purpose.
Because they get flattered by the attention from the randy old Lothario. The guy knows how to appeal to a shy girl like OP says she was and the young woman doesn't see the manipulation. She does not see herself as a child, she is tricked into thinking she is wildly desirable, smart, whatever. The old creep uses her till his true self comes out and he needs the challenge of the next sweet, young thing.
Why does it even matter? So strange how many people in this thread are focused on that.
Thank you for sharing your situation. It gives me hope that we are gonna make it
This is a guy who's still smarting from his last divorce and this will come up again and again as long as you're talking to him. He probably needs some time with a counselor to learn to trust again. At the moment he's likely not really able to look at relationships in any way that isn't utterly transactional where he's the one being taken advantage of. Maybe tell him that you feel like you and he are at different places in life and therefore aren't a great match. You don't have to tell him the total truth, that you're not yet bitter about relationships and don't want to date someone who's already decided the world is against him.
pack up my shit and go to a hotel for a couple days.
Screw that, she can go to the hotel
You’re spooky.
You were on a break. You were not together. It's pretty clear this relationship has run its course, and you guys probably should have just broken up, instead of trying this two-week “break” nonsense. But it's nude to move on from someone with whom we have a lot of history and emotional entanglement, even when we know it's time, and sometimes we just need that nudge to finally push us into doing the right-but-difficult thing. So maybe this other person was the nudge, and now you can finally go your separate ways. Your body is just telling you what your mind isn't ready to accept