Whoever makes more should contribute more. It's not fair at all to expect you to go 50/50 on everything. If “money isn't permanent anyway” then why can't he pay for it? This is not the way you treat someone you love and care about. Finances are extremely important and are a major factor in failed relationships, so if you don't nip this in the bud now it could create major problems down the road.
Yes, start job hunting now, and best wishes in finding a better job to move to.
If the relationship between you and this man is meant to be, it'll survive a few months of low contact and your being in another job, not working with him. And you should not be in a romantic relationship with your boss, even if he wasn't your boss when your relationship started.
If the relationship was – I'm trying to be as kind and as respectful of you as possible – a man who knew his marriage was on the edge of breaking up, having a no-strings relationship with a work friend, then it might well not survive the end of his marriage.
Either way – whether the relationship you have is good and sound or if it will crack and melt and disappear – it is far better for you, both personally and professionally, to make the conscious decision to move to another job now, than wait to find out what's going on with your relationship with him.
dude, shes abusive. stop trying to salvage it
Whoever makes more should contribute more. It's not fair at all to expect you to go 50/50 on everything. If “money isn't permanent anyway” then why can't he pay for it? This is not the way you treat someone you love and care about. Finances are extremely important and are a major factor in failed relationships, so if you don't nip this in the bud now it could create major problems down the road.
Yes, start job hunting now, and best wishes in finding a better job to move to.
If the relationship between you and this man is meant to be, it'll survive a few months of low contact and your being in another job, not working with him. And you should not be in a romantic relationship with your boss, even if he wasn't your boss when your relationship started.
If the relationship was – I'm trying to be as kind and as respectful of you as possible – a man who knew his marriage was on the edge of breaking up, having a no-strings relationship with a work friend, then it might well not survive the end of his marriage.
Either way – whether the relationship you have is good and sound or if it will crack and melt and disappear – it is far better for you, both personally and professionally, to make the conscious decision to move to another job now, than wait to find out what's going on with your relationship with him.
Go and good luck.