Yeah you’re totally right, thank you for your insight. i think i needed that and i feel like i completely overromanticised the whole situation with this guy in my head
I've spoken more fondly about a conveniently located tree in the rain than you're speaking of your girlfriend. Not saying that you ought to chase a fairytale type romance but damn.
Felt the same, doesn't help that until I came out I was also the eldest daughter which comes with the added fun of parentification. I came out as a trans man when I was 20, so almost 6 years ago, and after a period of not talking to me my mum now treats me pretty much how she's always treated my younger brother. It hurts a lot.
The “I love you but I don't like you” comments? Oof. Those always cut so deep for me, and I'm so sorry you're dealing with this as well. It seems like it's a pretty common thing among daughters
we both have discussed and want this. perhaps OP’s relationship is similar.
Yeah you’re totally right, thank you for your insight. i think i needed that and i feel like i completely overromanticised the whole situation with this guy in my head
I've spoken more fondly about a conveniently located tree in the rain than you're speaking of your girlfriend. Not saying that you ought to chase a fairytale type romance but damn.
Felt the same, doesn't help that until I came out I was also the eldest daughter which comes with the added fun of parentification. I came out as a trans man when I was 20, so almost 6 years ago, and after a period of not talking to me my mum now treats me pretty much how she's always treated my younger brother. It hurts a lot.
The “I love you but I don't like you” comments? Oof. Those always cut so deep for me, and I'm so sorry you're dealing with this as well. It seems like it's a pretty common thing among daughters
This line ” and it's most definitely not the person they never once ever saw in real life ” made me think.
Thanks for your guidance.
No problem. You are better off