If it was really to find out where you're all from, assuming all children are the offspring of you and your spouse, then the children wouldn't really need to be tested at all. You'd just test the pair of you and infer the children's ancestry from there. Kind of seems like he is questioning paternity… but then it doesn't seem like the most sensible way to figure that out. Most people would just test for paternity in a lab out in town- he'd be able to do that without you even knowing.
Also, as a genealogist, these tests are kind of crappy for determining where your family is really from. Nothing beats constructing your own tree but that's another topic.
She cries easily during life, why would she not cry during an argument with her spouse? OP said she cries to derail the conversation, but she's just crying. HE is the one derailing the conversation because she is crying.
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Hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Oh man. By the time you're 30, in the US, a lot of people have been to jail for less than 6 months. That is not even in the same COUNTRY as rock bottom.
Opening the relationship will only help further drive the wedge between you
Yeah, I can see it doing more harm than well now that I thought about it, it was honestly just a new idea and at first I thought it’d really help us explore things and make a break through.
it’s not exactly like she’s a trump supporter and i don’t agree with it. It’s a lot deeper than that. Do you know anything about Q anon? I would check out the r/qanoncasualties subreddit to get a better idea of what her beliefs are like. Trust me if it was as simple as she’s a hardcore conservative or leftist , it would not be interfering with our relationship. She is pretty delusional.
Run, run, run!
If it was really to find out where you're all from, assuming all children are the offspring of you and your spouse, then the children wouldn't really need to be tested at all. You'd just test the pair of you and infer the children's ancestry from there. Kind of seems like he is questioning paternity… but then it doesn't seem like the most sensible way to figure that out. Most people would just test for paternity in a lab out in town- he'd be able to do that without you even knowing.
Also, as a genealogist, these tests are kind of crappy for determining where your family is really from. Nothing beats constructing your own tree but that's another topic.
She cries easily during life, why would she not cry during an argument with her spouse? OP said she cries to derail the conversation, but she's just crying. HE is the one derailing the conversation because she is crying.
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Hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Oh man. By the time you're 30, in the US, a lot of people have been to jail for less than 6 months. That is not even in the same COUNTRY as rock bottom.
Yes, this guy was a creep. Yes, he should have respected boundaries. And yes, his behavior was inappropriate.
But you know what else? Play stupid games…
You and your gf are playing with fire.
Opening the relationship will only help further drive the wedge between you
Yeah, I can see it doing more harm than well now that I thought about it, it was honestly just a new idea and at first I thought it’d really help us explore things and make a break through.
Therapy will help
It’s our next step, I really do hope so.
Thank you
it’s not exactly like she’s a trump supporter and i don’t agree with it. It’s a lot deeper than that. Do you know anything about Q anon? I would check out the r/qanoncasualties subreddit to get a better idea of what her beliefs are like. Trust me if it was as simple as she’s a hardcore conservative or leftist , it would not be interfering with our relationship. She is pretty delusional.