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Date: October 24, 2022
Something my sister said. If you hold them accountable for things you don't like, they they aren't the one. Move on. Others will treat your needs better than he is.
Dump him. He’s a selfish lunatic with no manners.
Yes, my mum talks like this instead of just asking the direct question or stating her opinion and it drives me nuts. I think she’s very conflict avoidant so she talks very passively but it paradoxically makes me annoyed at her. I think the commenters who are questioning how this isn’t a normal conversation may not have people in their lives who communicate in this beating around the bush way so they’re not understanding how it’s basically just drawing out a conversation from something that could have taken 2 seconds to state.
She needs a lot of therapy. Tell her if she stays and goes to therapy for a year, you can talk again but right now her mental illness is so severe that you can't be with her.
This isn't an unusual anxiety, many people have it, and it can be overcome.
It's valuable for you to try to think about why you feel this way. What are you afraid of? Are you afraid your boyfriend will not find you attractive if you're not perfect? I doubt that's the case.
Seek some therapy or counseling. Talk through finding the root cause of this fear, and you'll likely find it's something you've artificially inflated the importance of in your mind.
You may be directed to try some gradual exposure therapy. Trying to be intimate after doing most of your routine, but skipping something, maybe not doing your nails. Then once you're comfortable with that, also not doing your hair, and so on, until you're comfortable just being with your partner.
Keep in mind, there's a reasonable level of behavior to this. It's okay to not feel like intimacy if you haven't had a shower that day, for instance. You're not crazy, you're just hypersensitive, but through understanding why that is, and gradually getting used to a less than perfect situation, you can overcome it and feel comfortable and in control more of the time.
Bro. Have some self respect.
why do i feel so stuck. as if i need him to survive. when i know right now it’s all in my head
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Tell her that you don't give cheaters the secret formula, she's a plankton now
Are you under the impression bills are income based? A gallon of milk or an hour of electricity costs the same if you're making $10/hour or $50/hour.
Yeah we both need to work on improving that together, I appreciate the advice.
I am thrilled to hear that!
Sorry, I read a few of your comments that got down voted and they seemed defensive. Seriously take that time to think about if this is going anywhere, it sure sounds like he's a “my way or the highway” guy in this situation, which isn't great for you.
Don't play stupid games to create more drama, OP. Just tell him that this relationship is no longer working for you, and break up. It sounds like he's started parroting things he's heard from other people, without realizing how hypocritical he's being.
In any case, you can do better and it's clearly time to move on. Please don't let ANY guy have raw sex with you in the future, unless a) you are in a long-term committed relationship and you've both tested clean for STDs, and b) you are either trying for a baby, or not trying but OK if a pregnancy happens. Even if your BF didn't oppose your right to end an unhealthy or unwanted pregnancy, it's a horrible idea to rely on the Plan B pill and abortion as your primary options for birth control.