I’ve told my therapist about a previous incident with my older cat (who just under a year). She doesn’t hiss at him and she is pretty vocal in general but a similar situation where her meow sounded different to me and I asked him to stop because it sounded like she didn’t like it and he told me I should just stop getting upset about it. I’m planning on talking to her about this incident when I meet with her today.
He has also not ever had cats before so he might just not be able to understand the older cats meow like I can, but the kitten hissing at him is a clear message that he seems to be ignoring.
Don't shit where you eat. Nobody cares about your exceptional special-snowflake sparkly Feelz.
Stop talking you your coworker unless it's absolutely necessary to do your job.
Posts like this make me suspect certain people just aren't qualified enough or mature enough to be working in a professional office environment, if they can't keep their personal feelings and their professional life ves seperate. If they have to come over here and whine about how they're married but have a such a huge crush on their coworker.
Adult the hell up, people. Zip your pants back up. You're not a teenager in grade school. Coworkers are off limits.
We've done sexual stuff but that's mostly foreplay.
sounds a bit like cherrypicking tbh…. but yeah, lots of overly conservative/religious people use oral/anal sex or heavy petting as a “loop hole”. They only consider PIV as sex, which can easily become very problematic in its own way.
I agree. I don't see anything wrong with falling in love fast in general. It's what you do or don't do with it that might cause issues. If you're a normal human person who doesn't do shitty things, then it's fine.
You’re full of shit that you can’t get a decent CS job without experience, unless you went to an unaccredited school or just bombed your way through it. You’re comfortable with her doing the heavy lifting, while you get your ideal life. I work in tech and we snap up new CS grads with only internships or projects in their portfolio, usually at 20-25 an hour. You can do better for yourself, but it would mean working harder instead of coasting at 14/hour while your girlfriend plays mother, girlfriend, maid, and servant to you.
Maybe the birth control made her realize what an entitled sexist dick you are and she doesn't feel attracted to you anymore. That's why she doesn't want to fuck you
No. He’s a grown man. It’s not your job to fix him. Why are you accepting this? Wouldn’t you tell a friend to walk away? I would. He’s not going to magically become employed and become a true partner after 28 days of that ridiculous ask. He just won’t. You know this.
I don’t want to endear this again, I’ve stated I can’t be with others. I rather be by myself and not live! the military lifestyle going forward if we break it off.
Please understand I’m not breaking it off to date others, I’m breaking it off due to my mental health. I can barely handle my mental health already, and adding this to my life is making me suicidal.
Ask her if she needs a hand
Fair enough, but you have to logically realize that her accepting the boundary as you sleeping separately is completely absurd.
I’ve told my therapist about a previous incident with my older cat (who just under a year). She doesn’t hiss at him and she is pretty vocal in general but a similar situation where her meow sounded different to me and I asked him to stop because it sounded like she didn’t like it and he told me I should just stop getting upset about it. I’m planning on talking to her about this incident when I meet with her today.
He has also not ever had cats before so he might just not be able to understand the older cats meow like I can, but the kitten hissing at him is a clear message that he seems to be ignoring.
Don't shit where you eat. Nobody cares about your exceptional special-snowflake sparkly Feelz.
Stop talking you your coworker unless it's absolutely necessary to do your job.
Posts like this make me suspect certain people just aren't qualified enough or mature enough to be working in a professional office environment, if they can't keep their personal feelings and their professional life ves seperate. If they have to come over here and whine about how they're married but have a such a huge crush on their coworker.
Adult the hell up, people. Zip your pants back up. You're not a teenager in grade school. Coworkers are off limits.
We've done sexual stuff but that's mostly foreplay.
sounds a bit like cherrypicking tbh…. but yeah, lots of overly conservative/religious people use oral/anal sex or heavy petting as a “loop hole”. They only consider PIV as sex, which can easily become very problematic in its own way.
There are couples who are ok with this, and other's who are not. Maybe it's just a compatibility issue.
If you don’t shut it down you’ll lose the guy you are currently with.
OP please dont read into the holier than though liberal extremists here.
This was a breech of your trust and should totally be dumped for
I agree. I don't see anything wrong with falling in love fast in general. It's what you do or don't do with it that might cause issues. If you're a normal human person who doesn't do shitty things, then it's fine.
You’re full of shit that you can’t get a decent CS job without experience, unless you went to an unaccredited school or just bombed your way through it. You’re comfortable with her doing the heavy lifting, while you get your ideal life. I work in tech and we snap up new CS grads with only internships or projects in their portfolio, usually at 20-25 an hour. You can do better for yourself, but it would mean working harder instead of coasting at 14/hour while your girlfriend plays mother, girlfriend, maid, and servant to you.
Maybe the birth control made her realize what an entitled sexist dick you are and she doesn't feel attracted to you anymore. That's why she doesn't want to fuck you
No. He’s a grown man. It’s not your job to fix him. Why are you accepting this? Wouldn’t you tell a friend to walk away? I would. He’s not going to magically become employed and become a true partner after 28 days of that ridiculous ask. He just won’t. You know this.
I don’t want to endear this again, I’ve stated I can’t be with others. I rather be by myself and not live! the military lifestyle going forward if we break it off.
Please understand I’m not breaking it off to date others, I’m breaking it off due to my mental health. I can barely handle my mental health already, and adding this to my life is making me suicidal.
you are 22. please put yourself first.