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Transphobia is useless not only to this struggling OP but literally in every other situation. Grow up.
Hi dear, none of us know who is “right” or “wrong,” but it doesn't sound like you're very happy. Have a look at what you wrote — what advice would you give someone you love very much, like your best friend or your sister?
he met me when I was at my best and now Im at one of my worst.
Making me feel worse and uncapable.
he tells me that theres another thing that I could have done better, or it wasnt enough
He was awful and […] he keeps shattering my hopes
he took that joy away
my body telling me “Im done with this situation and you have to get your shit and run.”
how bad and harsh he has been with me
this dynamic that is awful for the both of us
just straight up bullying and tearing me down
You need professional help plan and simple. Focus on yourself, and leave other people alone. I hope you get the help you need.
'Disrespectful'
To what? Feeling she doesn't know you have?
I think you can safely believe you aren't special.
Stop talking to her or don't, I doubt you'll break her heart.
It honestly sounds like you are not attracted to him at all, you just feel bad for him. I would say it's fairly normal for the first kiss, or even many kisses, someone has to be bad. If you're struggling that much with this, imagine the first time having sex, which requires more skill than kissing. It just seems like you're staying in a situation you're unhappy in. Imagine if he read this post. Is that a relationship you believe he'd want?
After many decades of bickering on the internet, the polyamory community has come to the conclusion that the best way to proceed with an open relationship is to follow at least two rules:
Whatever restrictions are in place for one partner's relationships must also be in place for the other; alternatively, no rules can apply to one but not both partner.
Either partner's outside relationships must be able to proceed completely independently without involvement from the other partner. No “veto power,” no “I have to meet them/approve of them first,” no “only when I'm around,” none of that. The only exceptions to this are rules that are in place for one or both partner's physical safety (eg., “you must discuss STD risk with each new partner”, “don't date dangerous people”, etc.)
You are almost there – I hear your willingness to let her relationships develop without too much meddling, but I think you need to challenge yourself to be okay with her basically going at it alone. As she looks for partners your only necessary role is “she needs to tell people you exist,” and that's it. Everything else is up to them. This will actually help her find new people because it will prevent her from giving off “unicorn-hunter” vibes.
And it's fine for you to not seek other partners yourself – I myself am im a poly relationship where I am not seeking other partners right now – but that's totally down to your personal situation and via rule 1, you should feel free to do so at any time.