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yeah well I'm disagreeing on a thread where everyone's going ballistic. I honestly don't care about being downvoted (I usually laugh, cos I've always had extremist views compared to the mainstream or hive mind). It's just upsetting for OP if she sees that one of the few people defending her is getting downvoted.
It's a very good illustration of just how very hot it is to navigate a steady course when you've just suffered something horrendous. People climb on their hobby horse and you must not disappoint them. No matter that it'll mean having to go over what happened again and again with countless police officers, lawyers and maybe even reporters if the press get on to the case, that each time you feel the same pain…
If you hide this, you're choosing to shield your friend from the consequences of this behavior over an honest relationship with your girlfriend. Additionally, you're not blameless because you allowed these advances to continue. She should not have been able to try to sleep with you on numerous occasions. The first should have been the last.
considerable distance away
How far of a distance? An hour? 2 hours? Different state? Different country? I feel like this info would help us understand perhaps why you weren't included to be apart of the bridal party.
For example, if you live 9+ hours away I probably wouldn't consider you for the bridal party because of the distance. They require alot of time and alot of meeting, planning ect. You being so far away would add to the stress of planning in general. It isn't anything personal.
I mean, I don't feel that having someone go through your phone and Snapchat memories is healthy. It's a total invasion of privacy.
The fact she was doing this, and that you think it's normal, leads me to believe you don't have a very trusting relationship. She was looking for something and she found it, and now her distrust of you is “validated” and it'll only get worse from here on out.
being sexually assaulted is always a possibility, the only person who could have prevented the assault is the assaulter. If she was blackout, she couldn't consent. What we are not going to do is victim blame so take yourself off my comment
They don’t exist in my country unfortunately, I’m happy for your sister though! Smashing it
You're lost. Try r/venting
I read this today, it’s awful.
Priest?
You should assume that he's cheating on you and then make a Reddit post about it. Whatever you do, DO NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, ATTEMPT DIRECT COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR SPOUSE! Nothing good ever comes of that. Also, you should probably schedule consultations with all of the best divorce attorneys in town, to create a conflict of interest so that he won't be able to hire any of them. Maybe try some passive-aggressive sex denial, too?
And what do you do then?
Don't beat yourself up, this was just two grieving people that had drunken sex. Youre still processing your wife's death and her sister bears some similarities to her, in your drunken state its not hard to see why it happened. Just draw a line under it and move on.
Has he built an art room in your house for his best friend?
Leave him. He clearly doesn’t listen to you. You have explained many times and he refuses to listen or do anything for you. It won’t get better with him, it would be better find someone else.
Just move out so you don't have to deal with the bs anymore. Living independently has its own challenges, but at least you're not getting grief for every little thing you do.
Like he was gonna do? After dismissing her clinical depression?
You clearly didn’t read anything she actually said and it shows. Pathetic.
You're welcome. ?♀️
I think you're right about the trust issues. When we first got together he would get annoyed with my lack of trust which is understandable. So, I would bury every feeling or inkling deep in the back of my mind. Now this has happened and all those feelings have come back to the surface and it is overwhelming how much I let slide. I don't want to be a doormat anymore, I want to find my voice again.
? you went from civil conversation to claiming victimhood so quickly there. Impressive skill
As long as he isn't forced to pay child support for a kid that isn't his who cares. That would be my only hiccup.
Wake up from this fantasy. How can you be in love with someone you haven’t even met. You are either gonna lose the money you have wasted so far or a lot more later.
“Every time I want something for myself, like concert tickets, it’s “his” money I’m spending (we share a joint bank account). But whenever he wants something, whether it be from my paycheck or his, it’s “our” money. I just don’t know what to do. He is making me feel worthless. Not to mention I do 90% of house hold chores- because he doesn’t consider my studying work, and I therefore need to make up for it by doing all of the chores.”
Get your own account each.
Pay your paycheck into your private account.
Transfer an amount being your fair share of houshold money into a third common account- being neither his private nor yours.
Pay household bills out of that one.
Pay off your debt from your own money. Now. Not “once you finished med school.” You are not there yet.
Your boyfriend needs to understand the difference between equal and fair. This doesn't sounds like someone you should be buying a house with. You buy a house and you become a family of 2 people or you essentially become his tennent where he is chasing you for bills and watching you be out of pocket – or 'very kindly' loaning you money…
I currently earn around three times the salary of my SO. We have a mortgage and two kids.
We have one joint account that all money goes into cos it is money that has been earned for the family. Why would I want my SO to have a worse lifestyle or unequal lifestyle to me? In the past when the earning ratios were the other way around the same thing happened.
Well, I dated this guy who became an alcoholic, and one day his company’s Christmas party came around.
I could not go, because I was starting a new job and my first day was the next morning and I didn’t want to mess it up.
At 2 am in the morning, I got a phone call from him where he explained he was drunk, didn’t know where he was, and needed help.
I eventually found him at a train station, 50 miles away, so I loaded his drunk ass in the car and headed home. By that point, it was 5am and time to get ready for work. I was so exhausted I wanted to cry, and I knew I was screwed, showing up sleep deprived at my first day of a new job? A job I specifically took to try and build a better life for the both of us?
He was in bed, warm and comfortable, snoozing like a baby. Meanwhile, he mentioned he said something at his job’s Christmas party that he was sure he was in trouble for, but couldn’t remember.
Basically, he was likely to lose his job for being a scary threatening drunken fool. I was likely to lose my job for trying to help him.
He was a drunk, and I could see how he was willing to destroy both of our lives for his habit, and worse than that— despite this mistake, he would probably happily drink again if given the chance. So we could end up homeless and he literally learned nothing.
So I went off to my new job, and after work, I packed my things and immediately moved out.
Because when you have a relationship with an alcoholic, you just go down with the ship. That is all there is. Get out instead of hoping it is going to be any different, your boyfriend is an alcoholic and dating an alcoholic is total misery.
The only time my husband ever does the bird whistle is if we’ve become separated in a crowded place or something. It’s our echo location signal.
Other than that he calls me by my name.
You aren’t a dog or a child, why do you let him treat you as one? You are worth more
right! OP is talking about how abusive she is for disallowing him from continuing these friendships… yet they're centered around ERP/cheating. most people would not tolerate it.
I had a boyfriend like this for 3 years. When I dumped him, he posted them on 4chan.
Absolutely no way at all, he’s a massive creep.
Aw that sucks
Yep
Sorry but it’s weird af to me how sooooo many people are cool and excusing her body shaming him.
Nooooooo one would excuse a guy saying tiny or floppy tits, or pudgy belly…come on ladies do better