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I try to online by the rule – if they can fix it within five mins let them know (I.e. boogers In the nose, food in teeth, clothing/makeup malfunctions) – if it can't be fixed within five mins it is only going to make them feel bad.
His medical condition does not change what he did when he was well. It may sound heartless but act however you would if he was not on his deathbed. If I was in your shoes I would just leave because he violated your trust
I had the same age gap with my ex boyfriend, nobody said anything exept for some of his friends telling him that im going to “break his heart because im so young”
Looking back i also dont really understand why nobody said anything. Not that i would have listened but its still weird how acceptable it seemed to be to everyone.
Tell your nosey-ass sister to butt out. It is exactly none of her business. Yes, tell your gf and your family – it's not a good thing to keep such an attack a secret.
You might ask her where this is coming from. Is she transphobic as far as you know? Has she dated someone that she didn't know is trans? Is she generally judgemental and controlling? Or is this out of character?
I hope she goes back to Europe soon and leaves you in peace.
After all this your take away is “I shouldn't of ambushed him”…. are you missing the point or are truly believing you had the right to speak to her to begin with?
Yeah i guess she has lied twice, but you know what she also said at the beginning of our relationship was “whatever it is, just be honest with me” and she couldnt even follow her own rules..
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I try to online by the rule – if they can fix it within five mins let them know (I.e. boogers In the nose, food in teeth, clothing/makeup malfunctions) – if it can't be fixed within five mins it is only going to make them feel bad.
Trust me, she's aware of her physical 'flaws'
His medical condition does not change what he did when he was well. It may sound heartless but act however you would if he was not on his deathbed. If I was in your shoes I would just leave because he violated your trust
And after that he took advantage of her being sad so he could fuck her… because, as he himself said: “his male hormons took over”
Byeeeeeeeeeeeee!
I had the same age gap with my ex boyfriend, nobody said anything exept for some of his friends telling him that im going to “break his heart because im so young”
Looking back i also dont really understand why nobody said anything. Not that i would have listened but its still weird how acceptable it seemed to be to everyone.
You're too old to be dating high schoolers, find someone your age
Tell your nosey-ass sister to butt out. It is exactly none of her business. Yes, tell your gf and your family – it's not a good thing to keep such an attack a secret.
You might ask her where this is coming from. Is she transphobic as far as you know? Has she dated someone that she didn't know is trans? Is she generally judgemental and controlling? Or is this out of character?
I hope she goes back to Europe soon and leaves you in peace.
Cops will not take the cat back. People telling her to call the police are giving useless advice.
Sounds pretty spot on. Don't tolerate this. He's a little old to be playing this game.
After all this your take away is “I shouldn't of ambushed him”…. are you missing the point or are truly believing you had the right to speak to her to begin with?
Yeah i guess she has lied twice, but you know what she also said at the beginning of our relationship was “whatever it is, just be honest with me” and she couldnt even follow her own rules..