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Hey! I’m new here, wanna play? @GOAL Tits Masagge [95 tokens remaining]
Date: November 5, 2022
Hey! I’m new here, wanna play? @GOAL Tits Masagge [95 tokens remaining]
Thanks for holding me accountable on that. I’ll be sure to apologize to him.
How do you know they left for no reason? …There are reasons.
Dude. Just walk away.
Toxic behavior. Dump her. You will never be able to prove that you won't cheat, and it's crazy to try
Me “allowing” my sister to do that would imply that I was in on it, which I was not.
Info:do you talk to your gf about her brother and about what you feel he is doing to y’all’s relationship
Being hot with someone else and pleasuring yourselves together doesn't have to define your sexuality but it would definitely be something that could be considered cheating in a monogamous relationship. I don't care whether he's attracted to men-I'm bisexual myself. I care about whether he's lying to me about it.
Reading comprehension not your cup of tea, I guess.
Ok so he’s either impregnated someone and he has a kid walking around and doesn’t want to repeat that? Probably not. Sounds more like he doesn’t really comprehend how women get pregnant…. At all. I’d set him up with a gynecologist appointment, and she can explain it to him. If after the appointment he is still weird about it, I’d break up with him, because then it’s some incompatibility issue.
He wants to experiment. He never had a chance to experiment before me. He doesn’t want to lose me and I don’t want to lose him. If you were still with the person who was your first for everything and that person got to experiment. Wouldn’t you want to experiment? Because they have told you about there past and you want to understand and learn things about it and yourself. But you don’t want to lose the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Would you end your relationship or try to find ways to be able to do without losing that person.
You don't need relationship advice, you need a therapist.
You're clearly just refusing to see what is so perfectly clear to the rest of us.
You will never be happy with this guy. And he's never going to be happy with just you.
And just so we're clear, people who want open relations and throuples are the minority, no matter where you on-line. And there's nothing wrong with it if that's your thing, but that's not something to force on someone who doesn't want it. You're going to have no trouble finding someone you're actually compatible with.
I have a long term marriage and adult children. When I was single, I was then (and still am) very much against living together without marriage, as I think this is detrimental to a long term relationship or later marriage, as well as not providing protection especially for the woman in such an arrangement.
Unlike most people (in the US) I am also quite against this emphasis today on independence, and I would see someone being into independence as a red flag, albeit one due to the culture and not themselves. Same for his emphasis on personal space.
Time to muscle up Buttercup and own it. You aren’t happy and in time he will be happier too. He will be hurt, but you’ve clearly made up your mind. Be honest, be empathetic and stay clear that you have made your decision.
My own take, as I’m sure you’ll plenty of people telling you to leave.
You two became disconnected strangers for awhile there, and it took a short affair/some outside excitement to wake her up and she recommitted. Trust can be reestablished, but it’s tough and can take time. If you think you can eventually let it go, and that you can both move forward and be connected: stay.
If you think that it’s just like a fresh wound due to the relationship continuing, and you’re not interested in putting in a lot of work to the relationship as it stands: leave.
There’s no right or wrong answer. Only this: anyone can cheat, and I would say that successful, lifelong monogamous relationships will still have some…slip ups. It could be time to take a naked look at monogamy and other relationship models.
Anyway, it’s tough to go through. You’re entitled to your feelings. Personally, my main thing would be asking myself this question: if I actually want this to work, have I done everything I’m willing to do, left it all out on the field? If “yes”, then I think you can feel pretty good about whatever decision you make.