If my partner did this to me it would give me the ick so bad that I’d never be able to even let them touch me again. Regardless of the reason for why it happened, or my empathy for them, etc. I just personally wouldn’t be able to overcome the ‘disgust’ portion of it. I’m amazed at OP’s resilience?!
You can do that if you want to, though it mostly makes you look like a dick. Be decent and send her a polite farewell like an adult who can take very polite rejection.
I probably should have thought like that. I was just struggling and thought I could trust him from what he was still saying to me.
This all sounds very unhealthy and dysfunctional. If a relationship has you twisted in knots and causes you this much stress you need to walk away.
If my partner did this to me it would give me the ick so bad that I’d never be able to even let them touch me again. Regardless of the reason for why it happened, or my empathy for them, etc. I just personally wouldn’t be able to overcome the ‘disgust’ portion of it. I’m amazed at OP’s resilience?!
Can’t you kids just go back to eating tide pods?
You can do that if you want to, though it mostly makes you look like a dick. Be decent and send her a polite farewell like an adult who can take very polite rejection.