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play with my toy [Multi Goal]
Date: October 5, 2022
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Do you really want to deal with this for next 50 or so years?
And this is the difference between men and women. I’m so glad I’m divorced. Unless you’re in medical danger, she’s allowed to have a life instead of sitting and watching over you every second. You’ll be fine. Be happy she’s having a good time
Her behaviour is a red flag. It is suspicious and textbook behaviour for someone who is cheating (emotionally or physically). Turning off location, protective of her phone, dead bedroom are all bad signs. I guess you know the relationship is now on very shaky grounds. Don't do it raw again as you really do not want to catch an incurable STD.
Strange that you say you wouldn't marry your fiance, because of her family. I guess you don't actually love her that much. You see, if she cares about you more than about her family it's not a major problem. You would be building your own family, and as long as her family doesn't act on their feelings it shouldn't matter. If your fiance is willing to stand by you should her family act out it is fine too. You know sort, you either respect him as me or we don't see each other type of deal. In their head or far away from you they can think whatever they want, who cares.
Important point, if you won't marry her, just because her family doesn't like, then they have very good reason to not like you. Granted, they do not know it and it is not their reason of course.
I just updated the other comment with a technique for you to read. Sorry it cut and pasted incorrectly a few times
He's going by Allen now- his middle name.
Finally some ok wisdom here
The absolute balls on that lady to ask for his ashes. Feel free to block her. You don't have to keep the cheater's ashes but you also don't have to give them to her. Also, tell your mom.
I'm curious, why did she take care of the cremation stuff and not you? Have you considered paying her back/splitting the cost?
She said the hair is in ziplocks, not loose.
You’re asking the wrong question. It’s not your issue, it’s his to resolve. You’re behaving like an adult, you can wear what you want and if he has a problem with it, he can deal with it or you can show him the door.
Do not diminish yourself trying to make him happy, you will get so much smaller and he will never be satisfied.
You’re way too young to be dealing with this bs, he’s insecure, drop him.
Yeesh. You grow a backbone and you leave. She’s a bully.
Why have sex with your bully?
Find a woman worth something. She isn’t worth the shirt off your back.
But would people be calling it gross if a 20 year old man was dating a 34 year old woman? No they wouldnt.
Its always jelous 30+ single women who seem to hate age gaps because they feel like men thier age should date them
Yeah – I was just surprised so many comments had her paying for an apartment on her own versus traveling with OP or buying and living in a new house now when that wasn't said in the post. Although if she wants to go traveling with her dad it would be technically living with family I guess, just a more expensive way to do it.
Your boyfriend (and, by extension, you) are dealing with two separate issues here.
The first is ignorance. Ignorance can be dealt with (usually – if the ignorant party is willing and able to be educated).
The second is assholery. Assholery is a lot harder, and often impossible, to fix.
His ignorance could maybe be excused if he would have listened to you explain to him what was going on with your health. But not only did he not listen, he doubled down on the assholery.
I don't think there's a lot of hope for him.
Keep that in mind as you consider your options.
Why is this specific event so important to you? Does he even know your cousin very well? A graduation is something to be proud of and all but I don't think they usually register on most people's radar as a super important event like a wedding. And cousins are family of course but I don't think most people would even notice if their cousin's bf made it to their graduation or not. Obviously everybody's family and traditions are different though.