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If you want to be honest you have to straight up tell her. Rip off the bandaid and accept any outcome that happens. If she gives you a second chance take it with improving yourself so that doesn’t happen again. But know that there maybe a higher chance of you two breaking up.
“I dont like the things she likes” she's into pop culture and music lifestyles of rappers and stuff. I love rap but don't follow celebrities bs and whatnot.
“I'm mean” whenever I tell her something straight up or don't try to sugarcoat things.
I tell her not to waste money on things that are too expensive or bad for her like nicotine disposable vapes or eyelash extensions ($100+ a visit + tip, $80 minimum per fill visit). She is a waitress and struggles for money always yet somehow waste it on things that are really of value. Perhaps she just hears that im trying to tell her to do something.
Same goes with the sweets and sugar. My family has diabetes and my father was the most recent, im 29 and realized my food choices aren't great and I've been trying to change. Her diet is all around pretty bad. Chicken wings, McDonald's nuggets, pizza. She'll eat, but is very picky and honestly has the appetite of a 5 year old. She gets dunkin almost everyday iced coffee mocha 3 cream, 3 sugars.
Therapy.
And let your fiancé go. That poor guy suffered enough. Great job hurting someone else because of your own trauma. Wonder when will he feel like he is worthy of passion again.
n my marriage we both work but both care for household tasks. However I do 80% of the childcare. That's ok for me bc he is beyond helpful with the house. If he didn't help with the house and I did the majority of childcare I would go crazy.
Happy your marriage is working great, can I ask how's your bedroom in this good scenario?
She also didn't pack any food, though. I hope he was able to buy something somewhere.
This is more of a you problem more than a him problem. Your insecurities and discomfort with porn does not mean that he shouldn’t be ‘allowed’ to watch it on his own time (and tbh, he almost certainly does already).
That said, he should still be respectful of your feelings and not watch it in front of you etc… just be careful with a don’t ask, don’t tell approach, as that will only facilitate your insecurities even further.
I struggle with hypersexuality as a result of being sexually abused as a child. No, it's not an excuse for cheating. Even being the way I am and dealing with deadbed I still didn't step outside my relationship. He is being unreasonable and unfaithful and worse, not even being accountable for his mistakes. Leave him, you deserve better.
Discussing it just now w my bf, I think u might b right. Maybe I’ll live! w his sister and not him for some time, and like he independent. And then he could move in later on. That way Yk, he’s not up my ass if things don’t go well. I think that’s not a bad idea tbh
“We’ll get through this together”
That’s what he should have said (or something of that nature). It’s what my husband said to me when I got sick and he’s stuck by me. A person like your boyfriend wouldn’t stick with you when things got rough. He’s willingly demonstrating what the furor will be like if stay with him.
Life always gets rough and one of the main benefits of having a SO or other intimate relationships is that you can lean on each other. You can’t depend on this guy. What’s the benefit to dating him?
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I stood up to make coffee, my fiancé said “let me put in vanilla”, i said no, she said “let me put caramel”, i said no I don’t want anything, let me put in sugar, I said “no i don’t want anything.” She then says “You just had a toblerone, that’s sugar, why can’t you have sugar” and I said “I don’t want anything in my coffee”. She then tried to take over making it and grabbed the milk from my hands, then I said “I want to make my own coffee” and then i had to talk her into giving it back and she then came from behind to hold my arm to guide the milk in the cup. I was pretty irritated at this point and then I said “let me make my own coffee”. Then she went to sit at the table and I said I’m going to sit on the couch. She said”you don’t have to ask me for permission in a laughing way” (i wasn’t, I was being polite saying I’m not going to sit at the table with her) then I told her, in a tone that sounds like an angry child, (where I was nearly at my breaking point) to back off and just let me be. She usually makes fun of my voice when it’s like this and calls it like a child’s voice. (This voice only comes out when I get pushed by her over a certain point). I quoted her before she said that (what she normally says about my voice) and said “why are you using that baby voice” and laughed like she does at me , she laughed at my prediction of what she said and then I said rather harshly “ like why do you do that, why can’t you just shut the fuck up” to her. Then she processed it and got all stern and said “you know I’ve said if you ever say that again we are going to have problems” i said Im sorry and explained she went over my boundaries of saying no and pushed me over the edge(as she has done before) then she switched it on me saying we have a problem now and i went over her boundaries. Which i did and I apologized for. I’ve told her in the past I wouldn’t say that again and mean it, but I get worked up and feel like I’m in fight or flight when I say it. She then explains to me how she hasn’t said anything about reality being a game/simulation or not real(she knows this bothers me) or how she hasn’t mocked me like she used to(she used to repeat and mock me a lot) after I asked her to never do that again. I said I know. She then said I continue to say that phrase even though she’s asked me to stop and I apologized again. She said she is going shopping. Then told the dog “you can stay here with HIM” and left. AITA?
TLDR: I have boundaries that are continually crossed to the point where I get overstimulated and angry. I have communicated this a lot. I lash out and then feel blamed for a rational emotion. I try to communicate beforehand and explain how I feel but I keep getting pushed to a point where I say mean things to get her to stop talking to me. It’s almost peaceful afterward I say something. I know I’m in the wrong for what I said, but I feel manipulated a lot. I feel like a shell of who I once was before I met my partner. I have a naked time saying no to her as it is so I’m trying to be more assertive for myself.
She should leave. You revealed what you really thought about her at a time that she was being honest and deeply vulnerable to you. She didn’t deserve what you said. I don’t think you can come back from this.
Your body count is 3. Not 5.
Body counts shouldn’t matter.
He said he didn’t want to know and you ignored his boundary. That’s on you.
It does, but again that’s not this conversation. OP asked about whether she should terminate the pregnancy because the father will be mad if she doesn’t. That’s the conversation. And my input is that his opinion doesn’t matter on this.
She hasn’t expressed concern about providing a good upbringing.
That whole line about him wanting to feel attractive and validated by other women is just a crock of shit. And him saying that to you tells me he never respected you in the first place if he thought you were going to believe that so whether you love him or not at this point is irrelevant.
Staying with a man who is actively looking to cheat on you is just going to make your life miserable. The resentment is going to seep into everything. You won't be able to trust him about anything, and that feeling will grow exponentially than what you feel right at this exact moment, and God help you if he gives you a disease from sleeping with other women.He is actively trying to cheat on you. Divorce the jerk.
It's not about him. Focus completely on yourself. Be selfish. Treat yourself as if the relationship with him is an addiction. It is chemically very similar in your body and brain. It will be difficult to separate, but honestly, you know you're better off without it. Focus on forging ahead with your life, health and happines. I promise that by the time you're my age, you will look at a guy like that and think, I wouldn't let my daughter date a guy like him.