You work a 9.5 hour day assuming you take no lunch break and switch off completely from 5:30-8:30 (and if you aren’t, you should be). Those are not long hours for an M&A lawyer. What are you doing from 5:30-8:30? Are you sitting around or are you helping cook dinner, clean, feed/change/take care of the kids?
Your wife is still suffering from a serious disease. Expecting her to be back to normal after months of untreated depression and having her body ravaged (because yes, that is what happens) is probably not realistic, but there’s also a distinct possibility that whatever treatment she’s getting right now isn’t working. Having her mom, your mom and a nanny there is a privilege but it isn’t going to cure her depression and your comments about her being lazy and having a victim complex are only going to make everything worse. She needs to address her issues with her therapist and her psychiatrist.
I would set up a hidden nanny camera or two!!!! Also pull phone records to see how many “deleted” messages their were.
You wait or find someone else.
You work a 9.5 hour day assuming you take no lunch break and switch off completely from 5:30-8:30 (and if you aren’t, you should be). Those are not long hours for an M&A lawyer. What are you doing from 5:30-8:30? Are you sitting around or are you helping cook dinner, clean, feed/change/take care of the kids?
Your wife is still suffering from a serious disease. Expecting her to be back to normal after months of untreated depression and having her body ravaged (because yes, that is what happens) is probably not realistic, but there’s also a distinct possibility that whatever treatment she’s getting right now isn’t working. Having her mom, your mom and a nanny there is a privilege but it isn’t going to cure her depression and your comments about her being lazy and having a victim complex are only going to make everything worse. She needs to address her issues with her therapist and her psychiatrist.
She knew him since he was 8 years old.
Call emergency services.