My love, this man doesn't care about your well-being to the point of trying to retrigger your ED. Literally being single is doing better than him.
I love that you're taking such a healthy view on food, I know that took an enormous amount of work. Please do the same with relationships – this man is doing you zero favours. Take some time to yourself and work on why you're still with someone who is happy to put your health and life at risk for the sake of his visual gratification, then if you want to date again you'll be in a stronger place to kick jackasses like this to the kerb quicker!
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What’s up with her search history. I thought things were going great. The first one is an ongoing issue, the other two are within the week.
Tons of articles and question on google about how to tell if your partner is becoming abusive. I think this is something she is scared of because of her past relationship experience. But she’ll reflect those worries onto me and assume I’m becoming abusive because we have a simple disagreement, for example.
I am starting up a new business on the side of my other business. It’s a passion project. I understand it may not be fruitful but I want to explore it. My bills are paid and food is on the table. We have no kids. She’s typed into her google search “my bf has terrible stupid ideas and doesn’t take criticism”. Ummm… wtf?
She doesn’t have an account but she did visit two different personal “kink” sites for meeting locals. From what I can tell, it was just the front page and she does not have an account. But knowing her relationship history, I don’t take this as a good sign.
TL:DR i think my GF’s search history doesn’t match with how she wants me to see her. Seeking advice!
She broke up with you or you broke up with her? Title vs the post is totally different so I'm assuming that you are delusional so my two cents:
She isn't in love with you somehow you think it's “boredom”? No it's YOU!
She needs someone who can live with her for real, someone to have children with, some security in a relationship… You didn't try to make it work and status quo was fine with you so she realized that she deserved more! You two “living together” is not living together that she needed but somehow you don't get it. Also, maybe you are bored, expected her to take care of you (cleaning, cooking) while you work and don't do anything for her. Also, you growing and being better than before is a sign that she was a mother figure to you and it wasn't her job to make you a better person! That only creates resentment and usually you never learn and keep taking her for granted.
Anyway, maybe I'm off, maybe I'm not but you two “let boredom in your couple” is probably not the reason she's not in love with you anymore!
Don’t apologise to her, she was being disrespectful the entire time. Also how can she be Indian and say that? I guess she should make the same statements to her grandparents and her mother and father.
I'm truly sorry that happened to you. I'd be out. She knew exactly what she was doing.
My love, this man doesn't care about your well-being to the point of trying to retrigger your ED. Literally being single is doing better than him.
I love that you're taking such a healthy view on food, I know that took an enormous amount of work. Please do the same with relationships – this man is doing you zero favours. Take some time to yourself and work on why you're still with someone who is happy to put your health and life at risk for the sake of his visual gratification, then if you want to date again you'll be in a stronger place to kick jackasses like this to the kerb quicker!
And keep it up! You're doing amazing!
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
What’s up with her search history. I thought things were going great. The first one is an ongoing issue, the other two are within the week.
Tons of articles and question on google about how to tell if your partner is becoming abusive. I think this is something she is scared of because of her past relationship experience. But she’ll reflect those worries onto me and assume I’m becoming abusive because we have a simple disagreement, for example.
I am starting up a new business on the side of my other business. It’s a passion project. I understand it may not be fruitful but I want to explore it. My bills are paid and food is on the table. We have no kids. She’s typed into her google search “my bf has terrible stupid ideas and doesn’t take criticism”. Ummm… wtf?
She doesn’t have an account but she did visit two different personal “kink” sites for meeting locals. From what I can tell, it was just the front page and she does not have an account. But knowing her relationship history, I don’t take this as a good sign.
TL:DR i think my GF’s search history doesn’t match with how she wants me to see her. Seeking advice!
You were being ridiculous in not going to the wedding.
You dump her for cheating. Quick and direct, and go no-contact. You don’t concern yourself with how she feels about herself. She should feel terrible.
She broke up with you or you broke up with her? Title vs the post is totally different so I'm assuming that you are delusional so my two cents:
She isn't in love with you somehow you think it's “boredom”? No it's YOU!
She needs someone who can live with her for real, someone to have children with, some security in a relationship… You didn't try to make it work and status quo was fine with you so she realized that she deserved more! You two “living together” is not living together that she needed but somehow you don't get it. Also, maybe you are bored, expected her to take care of you (cleaning, cooking) while you work and don't do anything for her. Also, you growing and being better than before is a sign that she was a mother figure to you and it wasn't her job to make you a better person! That only creates resentment and usually you never learn and keep taking her for granted.
Anyway, maybe I'm off, maybe I'm not but you two “let boredom in your couple” is probably not the reason she's not in love with you anymore!
Don’t apologise to her, she was being disrespectful the entire time. Also how can she be Indian and say that? I guess she should make the same statements to her grandparents and her mother and father.
You have a strong relationship but poor communication? Lol
You don't have a strong relationship.
Your proposal is good for you, and you know damn well, not for him.
So just break up and go fuck who you want.
a lot. We went out for st Patty's day…
He must feel very safe and secure there.
I only lock my door when the house is going to be empty.
She wants to see if she can do better. Leave.