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Thank you for all your posts, this is how I feel to. So many comments made me realise this is so difficult for me because as a society we based all the value on money because capitalism and by all the answers I get a good overlook on different opinions and some are more on my husband side, some are more what I think and believe.
I just wanted to add that all these posts made me also think about family backgrounds we both have, because I was provided more through my family and when we met he had no income but started working really hard and learned to code and now after a few different jobs he works for a good and fair pay. And I do the same things I did when we met and I believe he thinks that because he made a bigger leap from no income to high income he now feels I didnt follow in his steps.
But from my perspective. When he moved in with me I did 90% od all the chores on the yearly basis and I also work. That being said. I provided the time he needed to learn to code with doing most of the chores most of the time so I was left with way less time to be able to code. Now there are some super people out there who would be able to learn to code after working & doing most of the chores but I am not one of them because I also need sleep.
He said many times that he would take higher chore load if I learned to code but when he sees me doing the dishes and cleaning he never says – go learn to code and I will do this things today but he has this you have to show me first that you want to learn attitude before I start helping you by making more chores and it is a wishious circle.
*disclaimer: we are from a lower BDP country which means that coders, who can work for companies in other countries,… are paid more than doctors who are the highest salary in public sector. What I do is public sector and I am payed minimum wage, and he gets pay an enormous amount even considering other jobs in our country for a less than 40 hours work/week.
it’s not not controlling, but i’m not sure if normal is the word either. you’ve been dating for five years and how you word it gives the vibes that you feel controlled. if you feel controlled you should talk to him and explain that you feel controlled and that you’re not sure if he gets a say in what you do or don’t do if it doesn’t affect him.
also, potentially think about what his reaction might be in the far future if you have kids and he catches them drinking or smoking. just food for thought.
A month in, he showed you who he is. But, you keep hanging on, and hanging on, and hanging on. Why is that? If you don't like someone's behavior and you want it to stop, you need to stop accepting it. Nothing you've said would make me think he'll change or stop doing what's making you so upset.
Boyfriend – lies about being exclusive one month in.
Argument ensues – blinders go up.
Crap you don't like – argument ensues – blinders on – thinking he'll stop this time…
Rinse and repeat. I'd put money on him doing more than simply liking and putting fire emojis on Instagram posts.
Why are you in a relationship wherein you don't trust your partner? Messaging other women and attempting to hook up with someone else whilst in a month long supposedly exclusive relationship defeats the purpose of exclusivity, does it not?
Wow people are saying tampering with BC is rape?! ha very obvious anyone saying that has never lived through that experience. Still unfortunately the sad truth is this may not be salvageable. Not really the lies that did it though that is a factor, its more over that you may both want children you may run into irreconcilable ways on how you both want to achieve that goal. When even one person wants children both people have to be in complete agreeance on how to achieve that goal or depending on how you reach that finish line one will always harbor some kind of resentment to the other. Best just to call it and split clean before it gets worse for either of you. Best of luck to you
You’ve considered that she was hanging and having sex with her new boyfriend while you were gone?
You’ve considered that it hasn’t been ‘a year’ at all but maybe three months in which time she started an emotional affair that was consummated during your time away?
You’ve considered that the ‘a year’ statement is designed to make her look good as a thoughtful and mature adult that has given proper time and consideration to your relationship?
If you want to try to make it work, then go to couples therapy. Going to couples therapy might also make it easier to realize it isnt going to work and help you two formulate a plan together. If you really just dont see a future with her, then move on. Stop waisting both of your lives in a relationship that isnt fullfilling.
Thank you for all your posts, this is how I feel to. So many comments made me realise this is so difficult for me because as a society we based all the value on money because capitalism and by all the answers I get a good overlook on different opinions and some are more on my husband side, some are more what I think and believe.
I just wanted to add that all these posts made me also think about family backgrounds we both have, because I was provided more through my family and when we met he had no income but started working really hard and learned to code and now after a few different jobs he works for a good and fair pay. And I do the same things I did when we met and I believe he thinks that because he made a bigger leap from no income to high income he now feels I didnt follow in his steps.
But from my perspective. When he moved in with me I did 90% od all the chores on the yearly basis and I also work. That being said. I provided the time he needed to learn to code with doing most of the chores most of the time so I was left with way less time to be able to code. Now there are some super people out there who would be able to learn to code after working & doing most of the chores but I am not one of them because I also need sleep.
He said many times that he would take higher chore load if I learned to code but when he sees me doing the dishes and cleaning he never says – go learn to code and I will do this things today but he has this you have to show me first that you want to learn attitude before I start helping you by making more chores and it is a wishious circle.
*disclaimer: we are from a lower BDP country which means that coders, who can work for companies in other countries,… are paid more than doctors who are the highest salary in public sector. What I do is public sector and I am payed minimum wage, and he gets pay an enormous amount even considering other jobs in our country for a less than 40 hours work/week.
it’s not not controlling, but i’m not sure if normal is the word either. you’ve been dating for five years and how you word it gives the vibes that you feel controlled. if you feel controlled you should talk to him and explain that you feel controlled and that you’re not sure if he gets a say in what you do or don’t do if it doesn’t affect him.
also, potentially think about what his reaction might be in the far future if you have kids and he catches them drinking or smoking. just food for thought.
A month in, he showed you who he is. But, you keep hanging on, and hanging on, and hanging on. Why is that? If you don't like someone's behavior and you want it to stop, you need to stop accepting it. Nothing you've said would make me think he'll change or stop doing what's making you so upset.
Boyfriend – lies about being exclusive one month in.
Argument ensues – blinders go up.
Crap you don't like – argument ensues – blinders on – thinking he'll stop this time…
Rinse and repeat. I'd put money on him doing more than simply liking and putting fire emojis on Instagram posts.
Why are you in a relationship wherein you don't trust your partner? Messaging other women and attempting to hook up with someone else whilst in a month long supposedly exclusive relationship defeats the purpose of exclusivity, does it not?
Wow people are saying tampering with BC is rape?! ha very obvious anyone saying that has never lived through that experience. Still unfortunately the sad truth is this may not be salvageable. Not really the lies that did it though that is a factor, its more over that you may both want children you may run into irreconcilable ways on how you both want to achieve that goal. When even one person wants children both people have to be in complete agreeance on how to achieve that goal or depending on how you reach that finish line one will always harbor some kind of resentment to the other. Best just to call it and split clean before it gets worse for either of you. Best of luck to you
Dump him
You’ve considered that she was hanging and having sex with her new boyfriend while you were gone?
You’ve considered that it hasn’t been ‘a year’ at all but maybe three months in which time she started an emotional affair that was consummated during your time away?
You’ve considered that the ‘a year’ statement is designed to make her look good as a thoughtful and mature adult that has given proper time and consideration to your relationship?
You're going to get really hurt :/
she said she was single, he moved states BEFORE she told him. found out like 3 months after he already moved.
If you want to try to make it work, then go to couples therapy. Going to couples therapy might also make it easier to realize it isnt going to work and help you two formulate a plan together. If you really just dont see a future with her, then move on. Stop waisting both of your lives in a relationship that isnt fullfilling.
you married an 18 year old?? so you were dating a minor??? what the genuine fuck? your daughter is right and i hope the child you groomed leaves you