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Date: October 24, 2022
The question is when are the videos from? you've been together 4 years… are they older? or newer? BY (Before You) or AY (After You)?
If these are BY? Then there's nothing really to say… they are before you. His past shouldn't destroy his present.
If they are AY? If he's doing this recently and is telling you its okay, nothing to see? then it's a huge problem and the fact he's saying it's okay? What else does he think is okay?
If it's AY? It's probably a deal breaker as he doesn't sound remorseful. If he thought it was actual okay? You'd have known about it before he got blackmailed. He wouldn't be obviously hiding it. If he's hidden it… as you say… what else is hidden?
I think that there would be room for fixing it if he was penitent and admitted “What I did was wrong. I shouldn't have done it. I won't do it again. I'll tell you about anything else but it was all pictures and nothing else” or something similar… but he's not and the odds this is the only time… yeah, I don't buy it.
And your part…is just your part. If you decide to on-line with someone else than you have limits and boundaries. Her boundary is not allowing another pet in her space and you don’t get to trample that boundary. Her feeling about it matters and YOU only complained about your feelings on the issue mattering to her. Acknowledge it.
Move and choose a pet friendly roommate if you want a oet. That’s your option.
In 20 years you're going to be so glad your chest is small. I never made it past an A cup; I'm 43 now and don't have any of the back problems my big-chested friends do. I hope you learn to love your small chest and that you find a partner who loves you as you are.
My Dude, I haven’t read all your responses but the ones I have read are you defending your girlfriend, talking about how you need to take things slowly (!?!) and wringing your hands worrying about her resenting you for asking her to do the bare minimum of adulting.
How is it possible you work two full time jobs with jelly where your spine should be?
I’m not saying your girlfriend is evil but she is either massively entitled or she knows full well she’s taking advantage of you. Maybe both. Explain to me how a “nice” woman who isn’t even your wife, gives herself permission to sit on her ass for five years while you work two jobs and not feel a shred of guilt or shame? How does she not feel obligated to not even keep the house clean or cook a meal for you now and then? Does she worry about you resenting her? She’s lazy, a mooch and a taker. She’s going to keep taking as long as you’re willing to carry her.
What put your self-esteem so far down a hole you’re willing to put up with this AND no emotional support or sex?
Stop pussy-footing around. Sit her down and tell her you have become deeply unhappy with your unequal contributions to the relationship. Tell her she needs to get a full-time job within the next month and start paying 50% of the bills, that until she gets that job, the house chores are her responsibility and she needs to start making 50% of the meals. Tell her you have been feeling unsupported and that you’re tired of being in a sexless relationship and if all these things don’t change you don’t see any benefits for you out of this relationship.
Yes, she’ll be upset because you’re finally calling her out on her shit and telling her the free ride is over. I’m sure she’ll cry, make excuses and try to manipulate you further. Understand she doesn’t want to work but that’s not okay. If she resents you for insisting that she become a self-supporting adult, what does that say about her?
Also, make sure you don’t get her pregnant because if you do, she will never get a job and you’ll be supporting her for the next 18 years at least.
I wouldn't just assume it's something like that. Maybe her parents said something negative that got to her. Maybe it's the distance. Maybe she doesn't want you waiting around for when she has more freedom.
I would move out and take the dogs. Tell her if she rehomes them before you find a place that you'll press charges for stealing your property.
It's not even necessarily about the dogs at this pint, its about the control, hostility, and disregard for anything other than her own desires. She's going to use her kid as an excuse to act out and then blame you for setting normal boundaries and asking for respect.
If you can afford to live on your own – I would recommend doing it.
It sounds like you're advocating for staying with someone who would dump you if they knew everything. What is the point of being with someone like that?
You end it due to a fundamental incompatibility.
Well he doesnt want to share it with you. So dont expect anything to change because it won't. He doesn't have a very high opinion of you if he said that to you after 5 years. It hurts but its better if you face it now.