But what is she saying are the things that need to change?
What’s blocking her from wanting to have sex according to her?
It doesn’t help to assume she’s lying. If that’s where you’re coming from, then there’s already no hope in fixing the relationship.
It might be very possible that there’s something going on between you that has nothing to do with your physical appearance, but that’s affecting her ability to feel intimate and close and therefore have sex.
What have your arguments been about aside from sex? Are there other conflicts going on in your relationship?
He ring-a-ding-ding'd her.
But what is she saying are the things that need to change?
What’s blocking her from wanting to have sex according to her?
It doesn’t help to assume she’s lying. If that’s where you’re coming from, then there’s already no hope in fixing the relationship.
It might be very possible that there’s something going on between you that has nothing to do with your physical appearance, but that’s affecting her ability to feel intimate and close and therefore have sex.
What have your arguments been about aside from sex? Are there other conflicts going on in your relationship?
What does your husband want you doing?
Does he need you to work? Does he want children?
What does he want you to be doing with your time?
What role is he expecting you to play in his life?