How do you know he didn’t just have a spark of attraction when he met her for the first time?
It does happen you know.
I suggest you say nothing. You’ll only make yourself look like an idiot if you sound like you have a massive ego that he can’t possibly like anyone but you.
He’s joking about being sexually attracted to you. Your low self esteem is making you question whether that’s appropriate or not, which is sad. He’s disgusting and you should get far away from him, and get therapy for your inability to identify predatory behavior. He’s not trying to make you feel good about yourself, he’s creeping on you, and you need to learn the difference for your future safety.
This feels less like looking for advice and more looking for validation/reassurance that you made the right call in ending things. Which you'll absolutely get as you didn't name one good or compelling reason to take him back or any good he brought/would bring to your life. A lot of messed up to borderline abusive reasons justifying blocking him and cutting all contact, but none beyond him being upset to even consider taking him back.
And again you don't seem of the mind to anyway soooo…is this for validation?
You are too reliant. Not your car, not your bed.
Sounds like she’s feeling used and let’s you know when she’s mad.
Just tell your buddy to chill the F out, and talk it out like a normal person. If not then at least you aren't missing out on much.
How do you know he didn’t just have a spark of attraction when he met her for the first time?
It does happen you know.
I suggest you say nothing. You’ll only make yourself look like an idiot if you sound like you have a massive ego that he can’t possibly like anyone but you.
He’s joking about being sexually attracted to you. Your low self esteem is making you question whether that’s appropriate or not, which is sad. He’s disgusting and you should get far away from him, and get therapy for your inability to identify predatory behavior. He’s not trying to make you feel good about yourself, he’s creeping on you, and you need to learn the difference for your future safety.
This feels less like looking for advice and more looking for validation/reassurance that you made the right call in ending things. Which you'll absolutely get as you didn't name one good or compelling reason to take him back or any good he brought/would bring to your life. A lot of messed up to borderline abusive reasons justifying blocking him and cutting all contact, but none beyond him being upset to even consider taking him back.
And again you don't seem of the mind to anyway soooo…is this for validation?
If so yeah, you're making the right call.