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He is incredibly chauvanistic. I’ll chalk that up to Nigerian. Go to Macy’s, find a men’s cologne YOU like and tell him, You put this on every night before bed, and I’ll wear a perfume you like. But forget showering every night after work before bed, especially w eczema!
He says that I don’t care about him because I’m not always romantic.
Being sexual =/= being romantic.
The caring goes both ways, he clearly doesn't care about you being comfortable. He values his dick more than your feelings.
How can I explain this more to him, without him blowing up at me ? I really don’t want to loose this relationship.
You cannot. You have been saying this for 2 years, he understands, he just doesn't care. Either you realise this is not a relationship worth continuing or you put up with his needs and wants over your own confort.
Oh yeah 100% that's some creepy shit. OP said something like maybe he's just using her to get close to her mom and it's not cut and dry. She definitely inherited his obsession and she has to decide if she's comfortable with it.
I don't think there's room for real love with an obsession like that because I bet he will always think of himself first and the way she makes him feel (and what he has to do to get what he wants) instead of putting her feelings first… or at the very least consider them.
If you're completely independent from them and they have no leverage over you be it financially or any other way, then you need to change your locks and open a new bank account.
Full disclosure, I'm all about family. I tell you this so that you understand I'm not coming at this with an inherent bias to just easily tell them to fuck off. I get it. But the reality is they're overbearing and their behavior is unacceptable.
If you're on your own and pay your own way, you need to verbalize firm boundaries. You say you're sure if they say no that they'll constantly bother you, but there are measures you can take to end it. They shouldn't be able to get into your account(s) without permission. Make sure you protect them with passwords they don't know.
If you don't want your mom to come over, say no and tell her how you feel. I want to believe that they just love you and are looking out for you. That's awesome out of context. But this behavior objectively crosses every line. Stop worrying about them being mad and start focusing on the fact that you're rightfully mad and you have every right to be. Good luck.
Cheating feels like it would bring the most satisfaction. Almost like I want her to know and then blaming her for it. I know that’s the wrong way to approach it thought. I think I will write a letter and go from there