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Date: October 7, 2022
Kids are one of those make or break decisions where you both need to be on the same page.
8 years in your 20s is a long time to grow and develop as people. If you’ve both moved to different positions on having children, you need to respect the other person’s wishes and split up.
It hurts and it sucks. But long term if you stay together one of you will resent the other.
No.
Thank you so much for the kind advice!
Je nach Land in dem du lebst gibt es da eventuell vergleichbare Gesetze.
Und dass du Schluss machst oder irgendwas in der Familie los ist und du deswegen länger in Deutschland bleiben musst ist keine Option?
Have you tried going away on some remote holiday, just you two and seeing if that makes any difference? Maybe a change of routine is what is needed to appreciate how much you both need each other. This in itself should encourage intimacy…
Kevin is either your hubby’s long lost son or he’s got a big old crush on him. Either way, he’s hiding something major info from you.
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So you agree that he’s mean?
One thing at a time. You're meeting up for drinks, if it gets to a point where you're deciding where to go you could say you still online with your parents and they're sleeping/have to get up early for work. I don't think I could argue with that especially if I online alone. I would assume she doesn't really want to sneak around your parents house either lol and I guess you could maybe throw in a joke about that. Just let the night go where it takes the two of you. If you end up deciding you both just want to go home and meet up another time, that might be what happens as well. Most of us mid-twenties peeps online with our parents so the ones who don't usually host.
She’s stupid. Why’d you want to go out with someone like that?
Your past is just that, your PAST. Explain that to him and make him see u cannot change it…. that u are w him bc u want to be there…
Well, it is her call. Just assume she has a $900 credit card bill that is payable for some undefined period of time until gf grows bolder and tells mom to shove off. I doubt this is legally an obligation, seems like blood money to me and MIL is selfish and greedy and is willing to guilt her own child with some financial obligation she decides to revive as soon as daughter expresses independence.
Think about whether you can handle this. May want to discuss with gf that if you progress and build a life together, she needs to establish different boundaries with her mother. Either you have to accept that this MIL is going to be in your fucking face all the damn time, especially if a child comes along, and is probably going to be micromanaging your gf. GF either needs to become more strong or you need to learn to suck this up. The way she goes.
Loved the last sentence haha
Also, if you want your meals tweaked and cooked specifically to your liking then shouldn’t you just stay at home and cook for yourself?
Seems like everyone already covered the best way to handle the situation. But I just wanted to say best of my luck my man, and I hope things work out for you.
Come post and update to let us know how it goes.
Bro what are you talking about? Are you actually explaining to me that a baby is capable of blowing into a harmonica? Obviously man. It’s just that the way she worded it was strange and it didn’t initially click because of that. Not to mention the “(at the time)” thing is weird cause they’ve only been dating for 3 months.
I read that you have an issue that she “challenged” her bf. Can't let the women talk back, right?
Hey that’s a start. If there is any chance with the friend, full disclosure is always good. If you choose to do that, you can control the meeting, location and the like. Don’t go to hostile territory.
Also, I’d have a convo with your BF about it to kinda gauge where he is at, if it’s worth it, how he’d handle it if it goes bad. Also be open to him about where you are at as well so you have an idea of whether he support you or be more likely to support the friend and gang up on you. Good reason for a good neutral location. Safety in public to avoid visceral reactions and ability to get up easily and leave if you do t find it conducive to progress.
I think either way, as nude as that may be, it will resolve fully one way or the other by doing it.
He probably talked about his mim, aunt, granny etc and you indirectly accused him of sth
Open marriages are always a bad idea
Reminds me of a job I had for 5 days and everyday they “joked” about firing me..I just didn’t come back after lunch on the 5th day
I would tell her she deserves to know the truth.
If my partner EVER lunged at me like he was going to hit me or make any physically threatening move toward me like that, that would be the LAST time he did it. Either he fully comprehends when I tell him that under no circumstances will he ever threaten me again, or we are done right then and there.
Your bf is using physical threats to win arguments that he feels he’s other wise losing, or simply doesn’t bother applying the mental resources to work through. Either way, he is manipulating you to get you to agree or stop challenging him. And he’s doing this with 100% success. Can you see being shut down like this on any disagreement forever??
You can love someone and still recognize that they are a terrible partner.
She doesn't love you if she's cheating on you.
She doesn't love if you she's intentionally hurting you.
She doesn't love you if she's lying to you.
She doesn't love you if she's manipulating you.
You may love her, but she does not love you back.
But what if they outright refused any Mexican food ever? Because that’s what this dude is doing and that could be found more offensive then just writing off one thing
The worst thing is this wasn’t a massage thing that spontaneously ended that way he planned to do it specifically that’s not just an affective reaction (which would be bad enough) but that’s not a mistake that’s a choice
Sometimes in life you take 2 steps forward, and unfortunately it means sometimes you’re gonna take one step back. The longer he stays unemployed, the bigger that step back will be.
I really wish I could just give you a huge hug. I am so sorry this happened to you and your son.
You’re totally right. I don’t want to justify her worries that she had. It is worth mentioning that what I meant by crush was more that she wanted to hook up with me casually rather than her wanting to be with me in a relationship.
There’s an old saying “never go to bed angry at each other.” What it sounds like is you two don’t know how to argue. An argument should be simply a difference of opinion, not shouting match where you sleep separately.
What I’d suggest is that you sit down with your wife, not when you are arguing but when you are both calm. Start it out by saying you really love her and want to have a very happy and long marriage with her. Just say that the level of anger when we have a disagreement concerns you and you wanted to talk about being able to disagree without it getting out of control.
Ask her first if she has some specific ideas. Chances are she will have some very good ones. Here’s some rules for “fighting” you should definitely consider. 1. No insults. No one should be called dumb or stupid for having a different opinion. 2. No name calling. Seems obvious but it happens and is guaranteed to anger someone. 3. No going to bed angry. Disagreements should last hours not days. 4. No yelling, screaming or loud voices. Tough one for me sometimes. 5. No comparisons to others relationships. What Marge and Tom do down the street should have no place in your marriage. You two are your own entity, you make your own rules for what makes your marriage work. 6. Deciding who does the deciding. Sounds funny but if you both are in each other’s face about every little thing, it’s bound to cause fights. For instance, my wife is much more organized in general than me. I’m a bit better at planning. We each stay in our lanes unless one of has a problem with what the other does. I semi-jokingly say “she makes all the decisions but I have veto power if it’s something I really disagree with.” That works for us but as #5 said, you do what works for you two.
There’s probably many more “rules for fighting” that you can come up with but the main thing is you work together to find what works for you. That may involve some couples counseling if you two can’t work it out on your own. Good luck.
It will not work out long term. Start looking for a new apartment, then talk to your landlord and see if there's a way to get out of the lease. Then move away from her and start “talking to” a girl in your city.
You make a very good point. Thank you.
Wait, he’s so sick you thought he was going to have a heart attack, but you want him to clean?
Your husband needs to get a checkup. Then you both need to understand his treatment plan. Does he need full rest? Partial? To avoid certain triggers like harsh cleaners?
Then agree on what you both can do based on medical advice, not just finger pointing and blame.
Totally, he didnt take it the nice way its time to be an asshole abd tell him in a way that cannot be misunderstood
I was about to ask if your bf is 14 or 19 or something, cause there is no way a girl above 25 is believing or tolerating these stories. You are both immature tbh. Him for trying to cheat and coming up with such an excuse, and you for still being his gf.