You have said that you have talked to him about this already and that he gets frustrated and acts like a 2 year old. So, I dont know what talking to him again will do.
You do not/ should not have to walk on eggshells around anyone.
What he going to do when the baby spits up on him? Breaks his controller?
Don't listen to your heart, listen to your gut. Alcohol is something some people call the “truth serum;” it shows a person't true nature, and when very drunk, will often unlock secrets. For the sake of your sanity and your sanity, WALK AWAY!
I did speak with the lawyer representing the will and my grandpa and he confirmed the bank account was not part of the estate/will/inheritance. I assume it’s because of whatever position my aunt had that had control over his bank assets. So now I have idea if she is legally supposed to give it or not. I’ve never asked and I hesitate reaching out to her due to confrontation we had and probably will have again.
Sir, she already decided she wanted to do swinging when she brought it up. She wasn't asking you. She wad letting you know that eventually she's going to do it.
You can try to “spice it up”.
But that's not what she wants.
She wants to fuck other dudes. So let her go. Let her go to a party. And be moved out when she comes home. And leave divorce papers for her to sign.
I'm fat, my husband loves when I dress up! I think it's because he's not an insufferable douchebag, ditch yours and find one like mine. Life is too short to entertain unkindness from the person that's supposed to have your back.
You took responsibility for your dogs and replaced the games that got played regularly.
She did not take responsibility for her kid not cleaning up after himself. 9 years old is beyond plenty old enough to know how to not leave stuff out where the puppies can chew on it.
You said in another comment that she treats him like he can do no wrong. That attitude won't change and she is going to spoil him rotten. You'll be left being the Evil Stepdad the whole time. Do you really want that future?
Wow, I'm seeing a lot of traumatized people here, can we try once not to vote for divorce and try a more not extreme solution like deep/sincere talk about how she feels about it. First: is he fit? Is he skinny? How is he with his diet? Can u clarify how he lives, he's background when it come to being healthy and all?
Thanks for your advice! I'm kind of hoping there's a way to find out if he's like that in general, or if the age thing was really just an online thing and I might be wrong about the other thing. It's so nude for me because so much else fits between us.
You are 35. As a 31 year old woman myself, why are you even talking to a man younger than 28!? I see a 25 year old boy as a child. Anyway, you have never met this person. Every single thing he says could be a lie. He’s an actor. He creates a social life via acting like someone/something he’s not. Go outside if you’re able and try to create a genuine connection with someone near you. Sorry about your Mum.
Mate it sounds like neither of you know what “committed” means. It’s binary, not scalar.
OP has a job.
You have said that you have talked to him about this already and that he gets frustrated and acts like a 2 year old. So, I dont know what talking to him again will do.
You do not/ should not have to walk on eggshells around anyone.
What he going to do when the baby spits up on him? Breaks his controller?
Nope, cut your losses.
Don't listen to your heart, listen to your gut. Alcohol is something some people call the “truth serum;” it shows a person't true nature, and when very drunk, will often unlock secrets. For the sake of your sanity and your sanity, WALK AWAY!
I did speak with the lawyer representing the will and my grandpa and he confirmed the bank account was not part of the estate/will/inheritance. I assume it’s because of whatever position my aunt had that had control over his bank assets. So now I have idea if she is legally supposed to give it or not. I’ve never asked and I hesitate reaching out to her due to confrontation we had and probably will have again.
Sir, she already decided she wanted to do swinging when she brought it up. She wasn't asking you. She wad letting you know that eventually she's going to do it.
You can try to “spice it up”.
But that's not what she wants.
She wants to fuck other dudes. So let her go. Let her go to a party. And be moved out when she comes home. And leave divorce papers for her to sign.
Let her contact you through your attorney.
I'm fat, my husband loves when I dress up! I think it's because he's not an insufferable douchebag, ditch yours and find one like mine. Life is too short to entertain unkindness from the person that's supposed to have your back.
End the relationship.
You took responsibility for your dogs and replaced the games that got played regularly.
She did not take responsibility for her kid not cleaning up after himself. 9 years old is beyond plenty old enough to know how to not leave stuff out where the puppies can chew on it.
You said in another comment that she treats him like he can do no wrong. That attitude won't change and she is going to spoil him rotten. You'll be left being the Evil Stepdad the whole time. Do you really want that future?
Wow, I'm seeing a lot of traumatized people here, can we try once not to vote for divorce and try a more not extreme solution like deep/sincere talk about how she feels about it. First: is he fit? Is he skinny? How is he with his diet? Can u clarify how he lives, he's background when it come to being healthy and all?
Thanks for your advice! I'm kind of hoping there's a way to find out if he's like that in general, or if the age thing was really just an online thing and I might be wrong about the other thing. It's so nude for me because so much else fits between us.
If he was the type, he wouldn't be cheating. You're wasting your time lol
You are 35. As a 31 year old woman myself, why are you even talking to a man younger than 28!? I see a 25 year old boy as a child. Anyway, you have never met this person. Every single thing he says could be a lie. He’s an actor. He creates a social life via acting like someone/something he’s not. Go outside if you’re able and try to create a genuine connection with someone near you. Sorry about your Mum.