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welcome to my room, my room is full of fun, i hope you can feel good and comfy. [Goal Race]
Date: November 6, 2022
welcome to my room, my room is full of fun, i hope you can feel good and comfy. [Goal Race]
Same girl, I thought I was something special when this 38 year old dude was telling me a 16 year old that I’d be a ‘great mom to his daughter’ and that I should ’consider us husband and wife’. Then he tried to make me feel bad when I told him I wasn’t comfortable talking to him anymore. Thankfully it never went further than 9-10 emails but gosh I still feel grossed out and yucky inside when I think about it, because how could I not have seen that he was grooming me?
Thank you ! This has helped a lot!
Have they not heard of the internet? I'm sure there's apps for that! Just asking random friends of friends sounds so sketchy
He sees all that mess every day and doesn't think “hey, let me clean that up.” Or “hey my wife just worked 16 hours, let me make sure she has something to eat.”
Being pro-choice is not pro abortion. Believing it would be easy for her to terminate because “it’s not part of the plan right now” is naïve.
a boundary about people stealing food off your plate without asking
Yes 100% right, no argument. But we are not talking about just ''people'', we are talking about boyfriend and girlfriend. Obviously if a stranger or even a friend would come to me and take food off my plate yes I would freak out, that's not normal.
But sharing food with your significant other without asking is pretty regular. Of course some people might go overboard with it, but that didn't seemed to be the case here. Maybe it's a culture things, but in North America jokes about girlfriend not ordering certain food and then stealing off your plate is pretty common. We also see this in romantic comedy movies.
Not saying that people shouldn't complain about it if that's something they dislike or that it mean that anything is allowed. My gf taking some fries, yes sure, but if she's gonna take my whole steak it would be different lol.
I think the fact that he wouldn’t show you the questionable threads is a huge red flag. And the fact he lied about it and the story kept slightly changing.
Y’all clearly have trust issues. Maybe he’s cheating, maybe not, but it needs to be addressed seriously
In the same vein – a virgin saying you're the best I've ever had is like a parent telling their only child that they're the favorite child. The compliment only means something if the pool is expansive but in this case if the pool is large enough for it to be a good compliment it might not be something you want reminded of. Basically it's a dangerous compliment as it could mean very little, or bring up a fact you might not want to be dwelling on, also means to an extent your performance is getting monitored and ranked. You weren't just here for a good time you were in competition.
That is a possibility I’m aware of, which is why I have a doctor’s appointment tomorrow. If I did I feel like I’d be giving them go her everytime though, no? Which I haven’t been
I was always a lesbian or LGBTQ+ and so was he, we have had previous talks about me might being a lesbian. And I think the replusiveness does not come from a place of hate, as I love him very deeply as a friend, i just think with all the on/off'ness that i may have set myself off from him
As an avid reader and bibliophile.
I have and will continue to recommend books of many generas, including romance, to all genders and coworkers. They say what they like to read and I recommend some series/authors to them.
Not to mention many sci-fi and Fantasy novels are REALLY good even without the romance but happen to have that as a core plot line as well.
Sherilyn Kenyons novels come to mind. All of hers have a strong romantic subplot, at least. Even her YA series has a kind of puppy love going on between the Main character and the ghost of an assassin sent from the future to kill him before he kills her whole family.