It is creepy as hell, but OP isn’t going to talk her dad out of the relationship. Her best bet is to play happy families and get her tuition paid until she’s in a better position to be financially independent.
i would also join the r/herpes subreddit for advice and guidance but like others have said i would also check with a doctor to discuss options and ease your mind. i had a genital herpes scare and my doctor acted like it wasn’t a big deal because apparently a large amount of the population has it.
Nah. Shes the one that dodged the bullet. She's absolutely right, there's no reason for you to get so worked up at her asking you to stay. And shes also alluded to other times you've acted like this.
She's made the right decision, all you need to do now is leave her alone. It's done.
Like if that's a kink that turns u on .n that is what you fantasize even then .. it is a danger if you want something serious.. itll take insane amounts of trust and reassurances and to be on the same wavelengths for that to work. And I think you nailed it. OP isnt on the same page as her or better she isnt on same wavelength. Better to be lonely for a bit and find someone who matches you OP
Yeah… pretty sure most people would be mortified if this happened once or twice, and especially around their partner. That it’s happened many times and he’s had to replace mattresses, etc. and it’s still not a huge deal and snapping him into wanting to find a solution or at least try drinking less really screams that he doesn’t think it is a problem or there is a real problem for him to fix…. Good luck convincing him he’s having too many drinks.
Yes, you are dumb
Found the cheater. Hahaha sorry, what? Most people aren’t alright with their partner having “just one kiss”.
I want some lumpia !
It is creepy as hell, but OP isn’t going to talk her dad out of the relationship. Her best bet is to play happy families and get her tuition paid until she’s in a better position to be financially independent.
You should tell her. Maybe she can talk some sense into you so you can leave him. Have some self-respect.
i would also join the r/herpes subreddit for advice and guidance but like others have said i would also check with a doctor to discuss options and ease your mind. i had a genital herpes scare and my doctor acted like it wasn’t a big deal because apparently a large amount of the population has it.
did I dodge a bullet?
Nah. Shes the one that dodged the bullet. She's absolutely right, there's no reason for you to get so worked up at her asking you to stay. And shes also alluded to other times you've acted like this.
She's made the right decision, all you need to do now is leave her alone. It's done.
Like if that's a kink that turns u on .n that is what you fantasize even then .. it is a danger if you want something serious.. itll take insane amounts of trust and reassurances and to be on the same wavelengths for that to work. And I think you nailed it. OP isnt on the same page as her or better she isnt on same wavelength. Better to be lonely for a bit and find someone who matches you OP
Yeah… pretty sure most people would be mortified if this happened once or twice, and especially around their partner. That it’s happened many times and he’s had to replace mattresses, etc. and it’s still not a huge deal and snapping him into wanting to find a solution or at least try drinking less really screams that he doesn’t think it is a problem or there is a real problem for him to fix…. Good luck convincing him he’s having too many drinks.
He is not going to change