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Birth Date: 2002-03-07
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Date: October 12, 2022
Oh ok.. seems you've lived most (if not all) you're life there. I assume the country is in Greece? in the middle east? Somewhere remote, not the capital? Also seems that you're parents are v old school. Are you voicing your current situation outlook to them? or you don't have that type of relationship with them? I don't think you need a partner/guy to be with… you need to work on yourself first…train/study more so you can afford to travel or better yet move elsewhere…
Otherwise, you can try finding someone online.. but that can be v difficult.. long distance is v v challenging so you must be cautious.
“Maybe thats what the guys I like feel about me ig. That I'm too basic”
if you think like that, you will become basic. remember there are also 4 billion women out there so it would be useful to stand out from the others..
It doesn't seem either one of you is very happy in this relationship.
I grew up in a abusive household, many different types of abuse at that.
Your gf is abusing you…….
First and the biggest red flag I seen. She is not on birth control, and doesn't want you to wear condoms, and your the dumbass going along with it, and had a oops pregnancy that had to be terminated, because NEITHER OF YOU ARE READY OR MATURE ENOUGH TO HAVE A BABY.
But let me guess you continue to have unprotected sex with her any ways. Not smart. She is trying to baby trap you. This also shows her level of maturity.
Then there is the co dependency, you can't go to work events, school, family gatherings etc without her going off on you, because she cant get ahold of you during those events, or you don't answer her fast enough.
And adult does not do those things. Being responsible means having to do things like work, and not expect to have a gf blow up at you because you didn't message her a million times, or call a million times, or answer her messages fast enough
Then you have the issue of forcing you to set a deadline to propose. You set stipulations, and once she got what she wanted she moved the deadline up, but refuses to continue to work on her issues, or do any of the things you asked her to do. She is being manipulative, and is trying to get you to do what she wants. You are falling for it in a way, by going along with it, and allowing it. Also manipulation is abuse.
She has issues, that she needs to work on, but refuses to get help on her own. She needs a therapist for her co dependency , she needs to work on herself first and foremost.
Couples counseling is not going to work until she works on her own issues first. She is not ready for a relationship.
When you started this post I thought you had your head on straight, but I started reading more, and then your comments and I was like nope this guy has issues too. You are being abused, controlled, and are allowing it to happen.
You make excuses every time someone gives you advice or points out the obvious to you. You think couples counseling is going to fix your issues, but it's not. As long as she does not work on her independent issues, then things are never going to change and they will only get worse.
Her saying things to you when arguing like she does, is also abuse. A mentally stable person will not say those things even in a argument. Also no one should demand a proposal by a certain date. If a person wants to propose , it should be on their time, and not the SO demanded time limit. A proposal, wedding, or kids is not going to make things better, they will make them worse.
I sincerely hope you listen to what people are saying, and take the advice that a huge majority is giving you. Otherwise you will wish you had later down the road.
Then all I can suggest is getting the proper professional help. You aren't aged out. Not even close. Stop this fatalistic mindset.
Sorry you are going through this. Sadly you have like zero percent convincing her you are innocent so the best thing to do for your own sanity is give her her stuff and say goodbye. If her lil sis changes her story one day perhaps you will hear, so for now get on with your life, be the best person you can be, and wish her the best. It's a big wide world out there.
Dude. Dude. You know it’s part of her job to make you feel like that right? Just like every guy cannot be a stripper’s “favorite customer.” She is paid to make you feel welcome and liked so you’ll come back. To pay her more money. Please don’t try to befriend her, you’ll just make it weird.
She hasn't had kids recently
We’re supposed to believe that YOU, a dude who is grossed out by peeing in the shower, would start regularly pissing in his own sink to “get back at” his wife. Even if you did get past your aversion to something I think nearly everyone does, you’d still be doing something that literally hardly anyone would do (pee in the sink to prove a point). Do you really want to be the guy who takes a piss in his sink after being a dick to his wife?
I don’t think anyone wants to be the guy that pissed in his own sink….
But I’ve been wrong before….
Your ex wouldn't need pedophilic material to get off if he weren't a pedophile. You dated a pedophile and are projecting that onto everyone else
Dude, leave. They all smell nice and not all of them are compulsive liars and cheaters. Don’t waste good years on this person.
Just don't do it. No putting it inside until he finishes getting you off.
She is already the only one with access to a large majority of her cameras, and she changes the password and security for them often. She does have an alarm company who has access to some of the exterior ones.
I don’t see people as purposeful users right off. I wonder how hard it would be to find a ride to work when it’s a two hour drive~ the price of gas alone. Do you mean an hour there and an hour back? How does she usually get to work?