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It's not that big of a gap, but you 2 are definitely in completely different stages in life. You may be enjoying each other's company now, but you have to think about where you see your relationship in the future. You're at the stage where most people are finding themselves, their career, and enjoying youth. He's at the stage where people around him are starting to get married and start a family. You need to make sure you're both on the same wavelength.
You can't force someone that you wronged to get over it at your speed because they aren't moving fast enough for you. You fucked up, so however long he takes to re-establish trust is something you'll have to deal with because you caused this. Hell, he may never trust you again, that's also a reality you need to prepare yourself for.
FWB does not at all mean anything is assumed, especially sleeping with other people. At the very least that should be clarified at the start so both parties are aware of the STI risk. If he’s clean and you’re clean you have nothing to worry about, but if you’re sleeping around and catch something, now you’re giving him an STI without him even knowing of the risk.
I’m not saying you’re entirely in the wrong, but communicate better, it works out better for everyone
It was an accident, you can punish yourself as much as you want but it is what it is honestly. It may very well have been important but the point of an accident is that you didn't mean to do it. He might be upset and it could have had deep meaning for him but you offered to fix or replace it and that is really all you can do.
It is not completely wrong. But it does put you on a slippery slope to begin drinking to drown your sorrows and could potentially lead to more. It could also put you in a more emotionally vulnerable position surrounded by a bunch of guys. It could affect your driving. If I were your boyfriend, I would be upset that you think you need to be away from him as well. I would wonder why you could not enjoy a pint at home and he could give you your privacy if that is what you need and you live together. Don't immediately jump to the worst-case scenario, thinking he is just controlling. This is a different scenario, and he is most likely worried about all the things you should be home talking to him about.
Like I can’t believe this is all just bad luck bc I’ve met someone with genuinely bad luck. Like most of this stuff is stuff you have control over m
Like the Alexa one??? Bro give me a break, how does he think people cooked before Alexa??? Why aren’t you watching this food? Why not use a timer on your phone? Nah the answer is “I guess you’ll just have to cook everything” like how is that not weaponized incompetence lol
It's not that big of a gap, but you 2 are definitely in completely different stages in life. You may be enjoying each other's company now, but you have to think about where you see your relationship in the future. You're at the stage where most people are finding themselves, their career, and enjoying youth. He's at the stage where people around him are starting to get married and start a family. You need to make sure you're both on the same wavelength.
Cut bait.
You can't force someone that you wronged to get over it at your speed because they aren't moving fast enough for you. You fucked up, so however long he takes to re-establish trust is something you'll have to deal with because you caused this. Hell, he may never trust you again, that's also a reality you need to prepare yourself for.
Communication, communication, communication.
FWB does not at all mean anything is assumed, especially sleeping with other people. At the very least that should be clarified at the start so both parties are aware of the STI risk. If he’s clean and you’re clean you have nothing to worry about, but if you’re sleeping around and catch something, now you’re giving him an STI without him even knowing of the risk.
I’m not saying you’re entirely in the wrong, but communicate better, it works out better for everyone
It was an accident, you can punish yourself as much as you want but it is what it is honestly. It may very well have been important but the point of an accident is that you didn't mean to do it. He might be upset and it could have had deep meaning for him but you offered to fix or replace it and that is really all you can do.
What can you do to avoid arguments? It is generally very hot to expect a hug after an argument.
It is not completely wrong. But it does put you on a slippery slope to begin drinking to drown your sorrows and could potentially lead to more. It could also put you in a more emotionally vulnerable position surrounded by a bunch of guys. It could affect your driving. If I were your boyfriend, I would be upset that you think you need to be away from him as well. I would wonder why you could not enjoy a pint at home and he could give you your privacy if that is what you need and you live together. Don't immediately jump to the worst-case scenario, thinking he is just controlling. This is a different scenario, and he is most likely worried about all the things you should be home talking to him about.
From how OP wrote it he hired someone tho
Like I can’t believe this is all just bad luck bc I’ve met someone with genuinely bad luck. Like most of this stuff is stuff you have control over m
Like the Alexa one??? Bro give me a break, how does he think people cooked before Alexa??? Why aren’t you watching this food? Why not use a timer on your phone? Nah the answer is “I guess you’ll just have to cook everything” like how is that not weaponized incompetence lol