Don't shit where you eat. Nobody cares about your exceptional special-snowflake sparkly Feelz.
Stop talking you your coworker unless it's absolutely necessary to do your job.
Posts like this make me suspect certain people just aren't qualified enough or mature enough to be working in a professional office environment, if they can't keep their personal feelings and their professional life ves seperate. If they have to come over here and whine about how they're married but have a such a huge crush on their coworker.
Adult the hell up, people. Zip your pants back up. You're not a teenager in grade school. Coworkers are off limits.
I think it’s really brave of her to tell you upfront so quickly and it looks like she is being responsible and doing everything correct about how to handle this. Be sure to consult a doctor but I think she’s a keeper. A lot of the population does have herpes and is just unaware of it.
I have it too. I told my current partner before we slept together or anything, and he was very chill about it. I do get the occasional outbreak, but they are so minor and infrequent, and the medication is expensive, I don’t take meds for it. I do of course try not to have sex when having an outbreak, but there’s definitely been times that I’ve been just starting up and not realized it and had sex. I have of course told my partner right away, and he’s never been upset with me – he knew from the get go that that was a possibility, and that’s one reason talking about it and full and informed consent is so crucial.
We’ve been together for 6 years, and he’s never once had an outbreak. We got engaged recently and it’s nude to imagine how different my life would look if he had chosen not to be with me for this reason (which would be 100% ok, it is his body and his choice).
That's a good point. It happens with other stuff with girls too like a few extra pounds etc. and I tend to overlook it if I like them so not really that different.
I’d say you’re making a mistake, and even contemplating cutting them out over a name change demonstrates a lack of respect for them and the sacrifices they’ve made for you.
It was about a picture of herself that she sent me. She told me she took the picture yesterday even though she sent me the exact same picture last week as well. And when I called her out on it she said to be all confused and she just forgot about the time. And when I called her out again she confessed that she took the picture lil over a week ago. IDK, I feel like it's not a huge deal but large enough to second guess if I can trust her.
Btw: we have been sending each other plenty of selfies and some videos. So it is not a rare occasion that she sends a picture, but the fact that she reused the picture and then lied about it.
Wow. That was a bold move by your significant other. I can certainly see how you would freak out when your expecting one thing and a penis is now in your hand. That was a total dick move on her part. She led you on for 6 months is unacceptable regardless of which gender. That’s seriously a right off the bat discussion. I’m sorry you were duped like that.
Now as far as your family. Wtf. I’d sit them all down and tell this is never going to be fixed and you all need to stop taking any kind of correspondence from this person or I’m done with you too. Do they not see what a total lie this was your the victim here and no one else.
Again man I’m sorry and I’d imagine your trust in a lot of people is wrecked. Take some time and talk to someone if you need to. You’ll find the right one some day that won’t flat out lie to you about something like this.
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Don't shit where you eat. Nobody cares about your exceptional special-snowflake sparkly Feelz.
Stop talking you your coworker unless it's absolutely necessary to do your job.
Posts like this make me suspect certain people just aren't qualified enough or mature enough to be working in a professional office environment, if they can't keep their personal feelings and their professional life ves seperate. If they have to come over here and whine about how they're married but have a such a huge crush on their coworker.
Adult the hell up, people. Zip your pants back up. You're not a teenager in grade school. Coworkers are off limits.
I think it’s really brave of her to tell you upfront so quickly and it looks like she is being responsible and doing everything correct about how to handle this. Be sure to consult a doctor but I think she’s a keeper. A lot of the population does have herpes and is just unaware of it.
I have it too. I told my current partner before we slept together or anything, and he was very chill about it. I do get the occasional outbreak, but they are so minor and infrequent, and the medication is expensive, I don’t take meds for it. I do of course try not to have sex when having an outbreak, but there’s definitely been times that I’ve been just starting up and not realized it and had sex. I have of course told my partner right away, and he’s never been upset with me – he knew from the get go that that was a possibility, and that’s one reason talking about it and full and informed consent is so crucial.
We’ve been together for 6 years, and he’s never once had an outbreak. We got engaged recently and it’s nude to imagine how different my life would look if he had chosen not to be with me for this reason (which would be 100% ok, it is his body and his choice).
That's a good point. It happens with other stuff with girls too like a few extra pounds etc. and I tend to overlook it if I like them so not really that different.
what are his parents like?
I’d say you’re making a mistake, and even contemplating cutting them out over a name change demonstrates a lack of respect for them and the sacrifices they’ve made for you.
It was about a picture of herself that she sent me. She told me she took the picture yesterday even though she sent me the exact same picture last week as well. And when I called her out on it she said to be all confused and she just forgot about the time. And when I called her out again she confessed that she took the picture lil over a week ago. IDK, I feel like it's not a huge deal but large enough to second guess if I can trust her.
Btw: we have been sending each other plenty of selfies and some videos. So it is not a rare occasion that she sends a picture, but the fact that she reused the picture and then lied about it.
Wow. That was a bold move by your significant other. I can certainly see how you would freak out when your expecting one thing and a penis is now in your hand. That was a total dick move on her part. She led you on for 6 months is unacceptable regardless of which gender. That’s seriously a right off the bat discussion. I’m sorry you were duped like that.
Now as far as your family. Wtf. I’d sit them all down and tell this is never going to be fixed and you all need to stop taking any kind of correspondence from this person or I’m done with you too. Do they not see what a total lie this was your the victim here and no one else.
Again man I’m sorry and I’d imagine your trust in a lot of people is wrecked. Take some time and talk to someone if you need to. You’ll find the right one some day that won’t flat out lie to you about something like this.
Just dump him and go no-contact.