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Sounds like you should consider getting some counseling to learn to manage your anxiety better.
There should be a sing-a-long with this situation, it happens so often. Pretty much, do not date Desi men who have strong family ties. They have no problem screwing around with western women and lying to them because they don't see them as important or worthy of respect. Sorry you learned this the very hot way.
Thanks love, you too ? Just remember, you deserve someone who cares about you enough to value your feelings! If you have a boundary, stick to it!
You need a different friend, this girl is a nut job.
Tell the dad, cut this horrid women out of your life.
Why is she still your girlfriend???
Stop allowing disrespect buddy…
Sometimes you choose to drink 1 or 2, but the beer takes hold.
Well, yes, but we also don't know what happened yet. He could have a good excuse, although it doesn't seem likely. At the very least OP has to find out what happened and make her decision from there.
I'm really proud of you OP
Most of these post the guy fights everyone in the comments and deletes the post in a few hours. I'm really glad and hopeful you were able to present a problem take in advice and perspective and change and repent based on that. Not a lot of people can do that. ?
I'm with your friend. You binned his stuff, you replace it. Thing is, you're broke right now, and I'd understand that and tell you to replace it when you have money. It's a 3 quid shirt…. I understand it has sentimental value but it can wait a bit until you get on your feet. If anything, I'd say “I will buy myself a new one and you can get me lunch when you get a job”.
Let him go try to get what he wants.
He's already shown he's a little asshole: “Durr to guys sex is meaningless but to girls it's not”. So he plans on trying to get what he wants and does not care if it hurts anyone in the process, with his thinking.
He's going to get jealous if he sees you with anyone else, and that's his problem. DO NOT LET HIM MAKE IT YOUR PROBLEM. He's going to make his bed, he can lie in it, alone and sad.
It wasn't time with friends that bothered me, but rather the effort put into friends relational to the effort put towards me.
I can tell you right now that is a load of horseshit. You were mad that your so was going out, period. I cannot imagine your SO “texting, planning, discussing, and executing” like he was going to a gala. Did he giggle when he put on a clean shirt?
As a man I can tell you there is never any planning like you are suggesting and that by itself, which is the crux of your argument just screams insecurity. The “effort” men put into get togethers is “yo wanna go here” and the answer is yes or no. You also do not know their situation or what they (OP and SO) do with their spare time, they could go out once a week, he could be a great event planner, she could be satisfied with their life… and you are making assumptions for him and her based on your life, which does not apply.
That said, in the context of the post, which is ALL we have to go on, he stopped doing it and a decade went by, now she goes out and doesn't tell him, and stays out drinking until 2AM.
That's OK? No, it's not. It is not ok as married poerson, man or woman, to go out drinking, not tell your spouce and stay out until 2AM. Once is an error in judgement, multiple times is a red flag.
But how does this behavior and way of thinking in any way play into the “I'm doing it for me now”?
If she wants to go out, great (with some noticed as they are married ffs, but when he tells her that she told him it was bad and as a married man he shouldn't be doing it and then she does it and he questions her, and she gets mad, that kind of seems not only hypocritical but also dismissive and not just a bit shady.
Love is fickle. Go with logic. You can love someone else.
Oh boy. This comment made me laugh a little. Women who sugar date are absolute professionals at dealing with things they don’t like to get things they want. People have a lot of self control and discipline in situations like this. In sugar dating the girl does not need to like the guy and often doesn’t. They tolerate him to get what they want.
Girls don't “have” to do anything. Period.
Please find a new boyfriend, this one is awful. And no, he won't change.
I don't want to jump to conclusions, and hope will all my heart that this is not true, but giving your son drugs in addition to the nude photos in your husband's phone makes me think of sexual abuse.
Please do everything you can to get your son away from your husband. Get a copy of the toxicology report, call the police, set up a nanny cam, try not to allow your son to be alone with him.
LOL, I hope this is a troll post. If not than you only let him know that he was not enough for you. He agreed only to give him time to exit. the only way an open relationship works is in a long term healthy and a solid communication. opening a relationship is not one off hand conversation than jump in.
The fact that you were going away for 3 days at a work conference, he probably thought you already knew who you were going to follow thru with.
He has moved on to someone he aligns with
This isn't the same though. Porn is other humans and causes conflict in some monogamous relationships because of the other people involved. Lots of men have a problem with their girlfriend watching porn with more attractive men too. I mean that Magic Mike film, which wasn't even softcore, upset so many guys. A vibrator, on the other hand, is not a person, it's a tiny machine. It's not threatened. Using one doesn't involve anyone else. It's also not a dildo. And it is silly and controlling to want to dictate how your partner masturbates.
I don't know. I just woke up with her calling me a loser, a useless PoS, a few other insults and then kicking me out of bed.
Its not all entirely his fault. If it was a long term relationship you would hope you can trust your partner enough not to fuck you over like that.
It is also a better story than getting really detailed about fine tuning your foreplay game to finish when and how you want.
why aren’t you there with him, though? you can surely get backstage access even in the green room or whatever is there to hang out. my wife is a mixed materials artist and I attend every vernissage.
not being judgmental; but if his practical needs are met and he’s lucky enough to be financially unburdened, and he loves what he is doing, what’s the problem? that’s a wonderful thing to have in a partner
No:
I rejected her and told her that I had a girlfriend and that we can still be friends.
You should be putting space between you and this girl. Don't be friends.
How do you think this would play out?
Hey, so I went out. Had a good time. Shared an uber with a girl at the end of the night.
Took an uber home with a girl and she told me she liked me.
I shut it down, but we're still friends.
That is insecurity inducing. Especially when you're LDR.
Now what:
Hey, so me and my friends are going out and that girl is going to be there.
You don't have an issue with that, do you?
And anytime you hang out with this 'friend'… your gf is going to have a mental battle every time.
Yes, we can call her insecure or jealous… but really, don't you want to save your girl from that regardless?
What I would do in this situation… Respectfully end the friendship, then sweep it under the rug.
If it ever comes to light somehow, at least you have evidence that you ended it promptly.
And the reason I take this route… is because if you end it in full and still tell her, she begins to think about what happens when you go out and now you're dealing with the same situation as above but on a smaller scale.
Especially when you factor in the lying / denial stuff. I feel like he's going to be doing a lot more of that while his life falls apart.
OP really said “I can accept racism, sexism and hanging with rapists, but texting another woman is where I draw the line.”
Trust your gut. If it/she doesn’t bring you joy, just say no thank you.
I never cheated on him… we were broken up during the time. I do agree I should get mental help but I married him with a better outlook on life than I currently do right now. It has gotten worse but I expected my partner to help me through it and not ignore it.
But why lie about it if you don't agree? And this is about one person, not all of them equally.