The way I see friendship is “people with whom you've established trust, a degree of emotional intimacy, and you enjoy spending time and having fun together”. Life isn't always this heavy. But friends ARE the people you turn to when you're really, REALLY in a bind, too. Because you HAVE established that bond and history.
I can't even begin that process and you're correct which is ALSO part of the problem: I can't just meet new people and expect help with major life snags. That's not right.
I DO very much want the social end of things too. That's what always flops. I can't get past the “talking stage” with friends because of these things.
One person i know broke off with his gf who always on BC, both 18. He went back for one night, she wasnt on BC, then became pregnant. Bad decisions changes lives.
One important point – even if it WASN’T Mother’s Day, the way he yelled at you like a disobedient child for not doing exactly what he wanted you to do at the moment he asked was incredibly disrespectful. My husband would never speak to me that way, and vice versa.
Tell her you Don't want anyone to laugh at her for turning up in a white dress to another person's wedding, as that's happened at other people's weddings when people have done that, and you want her to enjoy the day.
Call your lawyer. Get the courts involved.
I think you may be taking me a bit too literally.
The way I see friendship is “people with whom you've established trust, a degree of emotional intimacy, and you enjoy spending time and having fun together”. Life isn't always this heavy. But friends ARE the people you turn to when you're really, REALLY in a bind, too. Because you HAVE established that bond and history.
I can't even begin that process and you're correct which is ALSO part of the problem: I can't just meet new people and expect help with major life snags. That's not right.
I DO very much want the social end of things too. That's what always flops. I can't get past the “talking stage” with friends because of these things.
Thank you, that also means bodily autonomy can never be equal.
One person i know broke off with his gf who always on BC, both 18. He went back for one night, she wasnt on BC, then became pregnant. Bad decisions changes lives.
That is a whole different crime.
One important point – even if it WASN’T Mother’s Day, the way he yelled at you like a disobedient child for not doing exactly what he wanted you to do at the moment he asked was incredibly disrespectful. My husband would never speak to me that way, and vice versa.
Tell her you Don't want anyone to laugh at her for turning up in a white dress to another person's wedding, as that's happened at other people's weddings when people have done that, and you want her to enjoy the day.
You have to be kidding