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You're coming from the point of view that she blew you off, and not that you blew her off. Tell you the truth- when someone is in that new butterfly phase of dating, if they can't be bothered to text you for 27 hours, they're just not that into you. Especially when you KNOW that's not their normal MO, and you have specifically admitted here that you did it as a “protest behavior.” You're the one who screwed up, but every single response you propose here is coming from the point of view that she owes you some kind of explanation as though she was the one who ghosted you, when it was the other way around. No matter how you phrase that, you're still being a jerk because you're trying to make it feel like she was the one who ended things, when it was clearly you.
Location can be wrong few feet, it fact it is always wrong few feet, up to house next door or across the street. Not few min drive , especially if there is a wifi in this house as location uses wifi address and not tower cells
Being good friends is one thing. But you can't compare her in any real way to your girlfriend. Not knowing all the irritating things that are always there, or red flags, it can look really good. But you don't know what you dont know about people as a partner. Don't consider a relationship with your friend. If you do that, then you run a very real risk of doing your girlfriend wrong. You seem like a caring guy so I think you wouldn't want to cause her that pain and you would want to feel you respected yourself in the way you move on.
You have a few choices- * stay- read some books on how to communicate, learn about the traits of healthy relationships, practice gratitude, consider a therapist
*leave- – read some books on how to communicate, learn about the traits of healthy relationships, practice gratitude, consider a therapist
Same thing that you deserve to do for yourself no matter which road you take.
I can't see your post but I read all of your comments. I may be wrong, but it sounds like you're experiencing some abuse, or at least unhealthiness. If your girlfriend doesn't respect your passions, if your girlfriend doesn't allow you time with family/friends/down time, if she isn't listening to your needs, and a big one…if she's made you (alone) the person responsible for her well-being, that's abuse. When someone says to you that they'd die if you left, they'd unalive themselves if you break up, those are emotional abuse. It's a type of abuse that anyone can have but women especially can fall into.
It may be that you both could have therapists and grow and learn your way through it. But if you want to go, go. Do it kindly, be supportive but don't give her false hope. Don't get with your friend right away. Do what someone else said. Do the review of where you've been, what worked and didn't and who you'd like to be walking forward. Take the time to understand your unwanted patterns because you will take them right into a new relationship if you don't.
When working on your relationship, avoid thinking of rights and wrongs. That will get you nowhere. Instead, they're challenges to face together. Frame it as, “babe, I notice that you really value getting out to do things where I prefer to work on my art or play a few games. How can we make this work so we both are getting what we need?” It's you two tackling whatever challenges are there together.
This got rambly! Hope it kinda makes sense.
I don't think that this is a healthy dynamic anymore. You can't control your feelings around this lady but living with her, she's in your space all the time. And she's told you herself that she sees you as being too old for her.
The role you have undertaken is more like a dad and caretaker in her life. You cook her meals, give her a roof, accompany her to the mall, etc. And this is what she sees you as- a buddy and dad figure.
You can't magic yourself into a younger guy. Accept that you have feelings for someone who's not gonna reciprocate them and draw up some firm boundaries for your own sake. Personally I would not recommend living with her anymore, and I certainly wouldn't recommend on involving yourself in her life like this with these “faux dates”. At the very least, it is inappropriate for a landlord & tenant to be behaving like this (and if this situation gets any messier, it will put her into a predicament & very vulnerable position).
Keep the relationship platonic, respectful, healthily distanced and well-defined.
I was specifically responding to you saying I should have invited her and ask that she try to get along with them.
Don't be so desperate to have her as a friend. Just be friendly and platonic. If you're compatible as friends (and she wants you as a friend) it'll be organic.
That whole, “I opened up one night…(that) I enjoyed her company and appreciated her and let her know if she need to talk I’m there for her”…do you talk to your potential men friends like that?
Fair enough. I meant just for the days between now and graduation, but still, you make a fair point.
Well, then, you’re going to remain stuck with your relationship problem.
If your boyfriend doesn’t care that you’re sexually unsatisfied in the relationship, that is the real problem.
So it sort of just seems like you’re trying to avoid having to face the truth about your boyfriend.
Long term relationships don’t aren’t sustained by the hormonal rush of first meeting someone. Maintaining sexual desire over time requires intimacy and honesty, and you’re deliberately avoiding these.
The way people improve their sex lives in long term relationships is by communicating. Period. I’m sorry, but there is no other magical way of resolving this problem.
You’re going to have to use your big girl words.
Not to be the bearer of bad news but this advice isn’t applicable to all women. Some women just can’t cum vaginally
Going to have to distance yourself, maybe permanently.