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Date: October 9, 2022
So, you’re not officially back together, he doesn’t know whether the kid is his or not (according to you via him), she may not know you two are “back together” (though by your own admission in a comment, you aren’t?), she posts live! like they are still an item and planned the pregnancy, you don’t like that she is constantly texting him, yet you are still planning this whole life thing with him as though you are in fact already his wife and the child is your stepchild? And you don’t want anyone telling you to leave him because he didn’t cheat.
Well, some good news for you. You don’t need to leave him, because you aren’t actually, officially dating him again yet.
Have you verified with her that they aren’t still together? For all you know, you are being second-stringed as a backup. He may be using you to cheat on her, because she’s pregnant and for whatever reason, he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Even if that isn’t the case (and I highly suspect it is), you are in no position to start making demands on any communication boundaries between them if that child is his. They will need to communicate, and remain friendly for the sake of their child (again, assuming it’s his), and you get to decide if you will stay and tolerate or (gasp), even act like a grown up and encourage and support a healthy communication and coparenting relationship with her, or if your going to leave. Because those are your choices. For the next 18+ years. And even that is pushing it, given, again, that you aren’t even officially back together again, yet! So really, you don’t even get to make that decision at the moment either. You get to decide if you leave now, or blindly believe every word he utters and allow him to continue to string you along and keep you on his hook, while he refuses to define your current relationship as even a casual dating one.
But hey, at least he didn’t cheat on you. Because that obviously would be way worse than whatever the hell all this is.
Feeling this way will help you realize how bad everything was and help you move on
Info: What makes you consider leaving?
She will still smoke if she gets pregnant because she can’t stop and the baby will be born underweight and possibly have other health problems. Plus having nicotine on her hands when she handles the baby is dangerous. It doesn’t wash away. And you are aware of second hand smoke on your own health. It sounds like you are looking for an excuse to break up so do it. She has already told you she is choosing cigarettes over you so accept it and move on.
You need help focused on not being an abusive asshole – not just help accepting your life.
Well we can see why you are dating a 20 yr old at almost 30, except she's more grown than you .
Please leave him! So much anxiety and stress. You would hold up everything because he acts like a brat!
Leave!
I'm thinking this is at the root of it.
This is so incredibly sexist and small minded.
My head hurts from reading this, but from what I could understand from this situation, you are selfish and self-centered. Similar to a narcissist, but not quite right.
I feel bad for your boyfriend in this case, and I'm not sure that y'all are compatible in an LDR.