This was a great post until that ‘I don’t know why people settle for selfish lovers.’ There are millions of reasons people are in relationships, sex is one of them. Women aren’t taught to demand pleasure or even be concerned about their pleasure the way men are—the old ways are still very much in our lives and shaming people for confusion and struggle when it comes to sex, given the dumb puritanical traditional bullshit that’s still everywhere isn’t helpful.
I’m sorry but you need to figure out why you’re still with this guy and why are you married him in the first place. This guy is a complete asshole and has no empathy. I know you can’t teach somebody empathy at a later age it’s just not part of him and hasn’t been talk to him and it’s not going to change. Do you still want to live with someone who cares nothing about the abuse that you had
You’re absolutely not to blame.
Your husband is gay, and that's okay. But you guys need to get a divorce because this isn't fair to you.
But what would be a reason to not mention it? Why should he keep it a secret?
This was a great post until that ‘I don’t know why people settle for selfish lovers.’ There are millions of reasons people are in relationships, sex is one of them. Women aren’t taught to demand pleasure or even be concerned about their pleasure the way men are—the old ways are still very much in our lives and shaming people for confusion and struggle when it comes to sex, given the dumb puritanical traditional bullshit that’s still everywhere isn’t helpful.
I’m sorry but you need to figure out why you’re still with this guy and why are you married him in the first place. This guy is a complete asshole and has no empathy. I know you can’t teach somebody empathy at a later age it’s just not part of him and hasn’t been talk to him and it’s not going to change. Do you still want to live with someone who cares nothing about the abuse that you had