Sounds like she just had a rebound session with you and is not ready for anything else like she already said herself. Just let her be, if she is interested to do more you’ll know.
If I'm cooking and you prefer something different just announce your preference…if you don't like it…you cook the way you want next time.
This may be why I walk away from relationships but it's I truly need less stress and If small things turn into big things and big things are just pushed to the side because nobody wants to talk about it. I can't express enough thar express stress drives me nuts and if you can't communicate or choose not to do things your eay when you do it, like cooking, then you can do it. I'll say thank you and move on.
I know this might not be too helpful but I'm tired of my feelings pushed aside too. I find it very disrespectful. It shouldnt be hot to compromise at all. I don't need much to be healthy and happy but being critical all the time, is stressful. It seems you are being reasonable and she brushes it off like your so sensitive. I think it's rude. That's my take…
I don't know, your sister seems keen on disliking you right anyway. She doesn't own those people so if you vibe together you can absolutely spend time together. Friends can be sometimes more of a family then siblings in adult life.
All marriage does is make you married in the eyes of the state or religion. It doesn't make the relationship better, in fact the first year is usually a struggle as you both realize you are “stuck” with each other. To have a good marriage is a lot of work which most people aren't expecting.
I would advise you not to get married right now since you are having doubts. The pandemic caused a lot of social unrest and it's probably better to wait a bit. You also might try premarital counseling so you both understand your expectations.
…but ketchup is like 3 bucks if you don't require name brand. Hell, you can get, or at least you used to be able to get, giant cans for refilling old bottles if you hemorrhage ketchup by using it on things.
he was really immature, he had irrational expectations and it was very harmful on my mental health as i would feel guilty that i wasn’t matching his expectations so we had to end things
Respect her. Wait for her or move on. If you live her you want her to be happy, even if it’s not with you.
Sounds like she just had a rebound session with you and is not ready for anything else like she already said herself. Just let her be, if she is interested to do more you’ll know.
The behavior seems controlling and rude…
If I'm cooking and you prefer something different just announce your preference…if you don't like it…you cook the way you want next time.
This may be why I walk away from relationships but it's I truly need less stress and If small things turn into big things and big things are just pushed to the side because nobody wants to talk about it. I can't express enough thar express stress drives me nuts and if you can't communicate or choose not to do things your eay when you do it, like cooking, then you can do it. I'll say thank you and move on.
I know this might not be too helpful but I'm tired of my feelings pushed aside too. I find it very disrespectful. It shouldnt be hot to compromise at all. I don't need much to be healthy and happy but being critical all the time, is stressful. It seems you are being reasonable and she brushes it off like your so sensitive. I think it's rude. That's my take…
I don't know, your sister seems keen on disliking you right anyway. She doesn't own those people so if you vibe together you can absolutely spend time together. Friends can be sometimes more of a family then siblings in adult life.
All marriage does is make you married in the eyes of the state or religion. It doesn't make the relationship better, in fact the first year is usually a struggle as you both realize you are “stuck” with each other. To have a good marriage is a lot of work which most people aren't expecting.
I would advise you not to get married right now since you are having doubts. The pandemic caused a lot of social unrest and it's probably better to wait a bit. You also might try premarital counseling so you both understand your expectations.
…but ketchup is like 3 bucks if you don't require name brand. Hell, you can get, or at least you used to be able to get, giant cans for refilling old bottles if you hemorrhage ketchup by using it on things.
Y'all need some therapy.
he was really immature, he had irrational expectations and it was very harmful on my mental health as i would feel guilty that i wasn’t matching his expectations so we had to end things