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Tell her from a fake social media account. Tell her that her Husband is having an affair and she should look through his messages when he is asleep. She will find something and no one will know that you told her.
Was your request a bit too soon for two dates in? Hard to say, but you made a boundary, and she agreed to it. Doesn't mean the boundary was fair or whatever. Then knowing she broke it she hid it for you and lied hoping that when she did find out you would forgive her due to a sunk cost fallacy, the truth is everyday she spent not coming clean was a conscience choice to lie to you. That is the bigger issue then her FWB arrangement, that she let it go this long and prevented you from having a choice in the matter. That's what is unforgivable.
Ask her to tell your husband that you didn't lead them on. Tell her he's blaming you and she needs to fix this.
Yeah you are right. Tbh, i think it depends if they were raised as a boy or a girl. It is very common for girls to fantasize about their engagement or wedding day, like a fairytale, way less for boys. It embedded in the stories kids are told. The girls are the princesses, waiting for their prince to conquer all to offer them the world basically. So they dream of the way they will be offered it. And boys dream of the adventures of what they'll have to conquer.
Not saying that it is within our biology to do so, but in patriarchal civilizations, that's how genders are raised from a young age.
But if that was about their own dream proposal, i think OP's fiancé(e) didn't go half way between theirs and OP's, since it was so opposite to what OP wanted.
But indeed, i'd find it quite normal to have a compromise of what both want instead of just the dream proposal of only one of the two
It sounds like the two of you have differing and incompatible life goals. It happens sometimes, and sometimes people can meet in the middle, sometimes they can’t.
But the way he’s responding to finding out you have incompatible life goals is concerning. Dismissing your reasons as not legitimate?? Getting irritated that you’re not willing to set aside your major life goals to make him happy?? Absolutely not cool, and also not something that’s liable to let up any time in the near future. He’s treating his goals as more important than yours. Your goals and your reasons for wanting them are just as legitimate as his are, even if you don’t have it all planned out like he does.
It sounds like you haven’t even moved yet, and he’s already complaining about “compromising” on the LDR aspect. That resentment also isn’t likely to go away any time soon.
Please please please do not let him pressure you into having kids on his timetable, especially if you’re still in graduate school. That’s a recipe for disaster all around.
You’re about to make a move and embark on an exciting new chapter in your life (congrats on grad school!). You don’t have to know exactly what you want, in order to know that you don’t want what he wants. You can have a Big Adult Conversation about this, where you lay out the things that you will not (and should not!) compromise on, like a timeline for children, and you should do so!
But think about it: you’ve been dating for only a year and change, and already, the compromises on both sides are already piling up to where neither of you are comfortable. Is a year-ish relationship worth compromising your entire life for? Realistically, the best outcome to that conversation is probably an amicable breakup as you move on to this next phase in your life.
You’re very obviously a smart, ambitious and driven girl, and you deserve a partner whose response to you living your dreams is pride, not resentment. Good luck.
Oh hell no I would not be okay with this. Him inviting her and her whole family over to stay with you, she’s unhappy in her marriage, he’s distant and confiding in her. How very convenient. He either had an emotional affair and then it stopped or it’s still going on.
If it’s innocent this shouldn’t damage whatever progress you’ve made. You have a right to transparency in your relationship and he has clearly not been transparent.
There’s a reason the other comment got a bunch of downvotes. It’s not controlling to ask your husband for boundaries when he’s clearly crossed them many times with another woman.
The problem is, can you believe him when you ask him about it? I personally wouldn’t.
I’m 24 now and I’m able to say no and get slightly aggressive if I have to but when I was like 18/19 I would feel so uncomfortable if I already said no and that I had a bf multiple times. There was one time I gave my number but then just blocked him. Even if I were single I would have had zero interest in that guy, he would just not stop following and asking, coming up with different solutions to my excuses. As long as she doesn’t respond and blocks him I don’t think it’s necessary to go through the extent of changing her number.