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Once things calmed down, and you both have had time to chill out, have you tried texting her a pic of the police report and apologizing for the way you spoke to her?
he’s definitely doing a lot better than he has in the past, i just feel like i have to walk on eggshells with certain things whereas with him i feel like he’s not doing the same or giving the same effort.
If it is CP or anything remotely resembling it or sexual… then leave and go no contact. If it is other crimes like financial, drugs (there is victims in that) or whatever then you have to decide if you morally can support it. Because by staying with him then you are accepting it, not approving but accepting.
You groomed a broken 18 yo boy to get your bean flicked and put your son on the back burner to do so. I don’t know why you even thought you could come back from that. A birthday? Really? You dismissed your son’s birthday, the one you raised, to go fuck?
Leave him alone. Stay out of his life and work with both of the the children you brought in the home, yea.. that includes the one you decided to marry.
Tell her you would like to follow through with the divorce since she genuinely did not care about your well being in the situation being that you had back surgery a couple of days before.
Did you date her cause you liked her family? If yes, that is quite the lesson to judge a person on their own merits, and see the truth, not what we want to see or what we “think” of someone.
It is quite common to learn new things about someone, that should change our minds about them. Being able to accept we were wrong is necessary, likewise if reality is just cruel, we still need to take it for what it is. With love, it is especially common, to fall for someone, and stubbornly refuse to confront the reality before our eyes against our idea about them, or rather what we want them to be. It is a recipe for disaster.
Wtf is up with all these comments claiming you “let it happen”? Sounds like you were sexually harassed, considering she had every reason to realize you were uncomfortable. I would text her either way, your gf can't force you to stay quiet about literal harassment for her comfort.
Totally in agreement with you – common sense, honestly. It’s ridiculous to think that since one dude out of three billion doesn’t care then it should be okay to say it to anyone
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Your bf sounds like an ass. I would not want to stay with someone who treated me like that.
Once things calmed down, and you both have had time to chill out, have you tried texting her a pic of the police report and apologizing for the way you spoke to her?
he’s definitely doing a lot better than he has in the past, i just feel like i have to walk on eggshells with certain things whereas with him i feel like he’s not doing the same or giving the same effort.
If it is CP or anything remotely resembling it or sexual… then leave and go no contact. If it is other crimes like financial, drugs (there is victims in that) or whatever then you have to decide if you morally can support it. Because by staying with him then you are accepting it, not approving but accepting.
You groomed a broken 18 yo boy to get your bean flicked and put your son on the back burner to do so. I don’t know why you even thought you could come back from that. A birthday? Really? You dismissed your son’s birthday, the one you raised, to go fuck?
Leave him alone. Stay out of his life and work with both of the the children you brought in the home, yea.. that includes the one you decided to marry.
This is literally so fucked up. Nightmare shit right here, you cannot be with this person
Tell her you would like to follow through with the divorce since she genuinely did not care about your well being in the situation being that you had back surgery a couple of days before.
use some punctuation cuz its nude to sort out your jumbled thoughts without it and yes lying is manipulation.
Did you date her cause you liked her family? If yes, that is quite the lesson to judge a person on their own merits, and see the truth, not what we want to see or what we “think” of someone.
It is quite common to learn new things about someone, that should change our minds about them. Being able to accept we were wrong is necessary, likewise if reality is just cruel, we still need to take it for what it is. With love, it is especially common, to fall for someone, and stubbornly refuse to confront the reality before our eyes against our idea about them, or rather what we want them to be. It is a recipe for disaster.
Wtf is up with all these comments claiming you “let it happen”? Sounds like you were sexually harassed, considering she had every reason to realize you were uncomfortable. I would text her either way, your gf can't force you to stay quiet about literal harassment for her comfort.
Totally in agreement with you – common sense, honestly. It’s ridiculous to think that since one dude out of three billion doesn’t care then it should be okay to say it to anyone