That’s what I did. I was by his side the hold time, trying to send him non-verbal cues to tone things down, but he wasn’t picking them up. My friends would try to bring the conversation to a lull, or look away, because he was just getting way too into it and getting very loud. I don’t know if I should ask him beforehand to just lay low and let others do more of the talking?
I understand your point, I do not want to “cause strife in the house”. They don't know what's going on, Sheryl doesn't tell them and they're not around much due to work. I just thought about talking with them because they seem miserable with how their child acts and they don't understand why, no parenting advice or comments on their parenting, just concerns.
First and foremost … he is most likely lying about “stopping.” This isn't the movies, where the hero realizes hus mistake and leaves. This is real life, where a horny, flattered man has naked sex in a hotel room on a business trip. Tell him you've booked a polygraph test and see if you don't get a “parking lot confession.”. I'll bet you do.
Secondly, if you want to stay married, you need individual and couples counseling. This is critical.
It's ok to be married or date someone with a different political viewpoint. Its also ok to never talk to them about your viewpoint. Once uppn a time, it was taboo to discuss politics at the dinner table. It was rude to ask people who they voted for. Yet today, everyone's worth is somewhat based on their political affiliation, and its just sad. Ask yourself this: Would your partner be the same person had he had different beliefs? Would he be the same person you grew to love? Could the same be said about you? Politics in casual/friendly company breed two things. Resentment and intolerance of others. Life is more than who you vote for.
It‘s still important to know the truth and have proof
F.e. In court
Correct. But that's not what I was contesting.
Reread his/her comment, and then mine.
S/he describes the passing on of recessive traits and says its how dominant ones work.
That’s what I did. I was by his side the hold time, trying to send him non-verbal cues to tone things down, but he wasn’t picking them up. My friends would try to bring the conversation to a lull, or look away, because he was just getting way too into it and getting very loud. I don’t know if I should ask him beforehand to just lay low and let others do more of the talking?
Oh so you’re an alcoholic that can’t control their emotions? And you’re wondering why your boyfriend left?
I understand your point, I do not want to “cause strife in the house”. They don't know what's going on, Sheryl doesn't tell them and they're not around much due to work. I just thought about talking with them because they seem miserable with how their child acts and they don't understand why, no parenting advice or comments on their parenting, just concerns.
He drugged a child the fact you haven’t killed him is surprising
First and foremost … he is most likely lying about “stopping.” This isn't the movies, where the hero realizes hus mistake and leaves. This is real life, where a horny, flattered man has naked sex in a hotel room on a business trip. Tell him you've booked a polygraph test and see if you don't get a “parking lot confession.”. I'll bet you do.
Secondly, if you want to stay married, you need individual and couples counseling. This is critical.
It's ok to be married or date someone with a different political viewpoint. Its also ok to never talk to them about your viewpoint. Once uppn a time, it was taboo to discuss politics at the dinner table. It was rude to ask people who they voted for. Yet today, everyone's worth is somewhat based on their political affiliation, and its just sad. Ask yourself this: Would your partner be the same person had he had different beliefs? Would he be the same person you grew to love? Could the same be said about you? Politics in casual/friendly company breed two things. Resentment and intolerance of others. Life is more than who you vote for.
Bang him real good and tell him there'll be lots more at the vacation home.
A whole lot of fantasies are best kept as one. This will fundamentally change your relationship… and likley not in a good way.