But unless I'm missing something, and they are in a country where abortion is illegal, then they 100% had the choice of whether or not to have a baby. That choice of course logistically falls fully on her, and she made it. So she had a choice, baby or no baby. He didn't have a choice, the baby was forced on him.
Where are you getting that they chose to inconvenience OP? She hasn't said anything like that. It sounds like it's just a case of really bad timing. I didn't find out my graduation date until maybe 6-8 weeks before. Weddings are usually planned much further in advance.
And I would like to say it hurts my heart alot to see someone in this state
First off… this is not your job or place to fix.
From the sounds of it, she was drunk… and wanted you to come over for… you get the vibe.
If you feel the need to tell the husband… that is on you to decide. But if there is a second occurrence of this, you should be addressing in some fashion. Whether you tell her that it is insanely inappropriate for her to call, or you go to the husband and show the call logs.
How does a 21 year old end up with friends with 36/37 year old's anyway?
Leave. Now
Man I wish I had gotten the preview of future behavior that you did. Would have saved me some trouble.
Let’s hit the gym, send her to those streets.
Life is too short
Block all.your hookups
But unless I'm missing something, and they are in a country where abortion is illegal, then they 100% had the choice of whether or not to have a baby. That choice of course logistically falls fully on her, and she made it. So she had a choice, baby or no baby. He didn't have a choice, the baby was forced on him.
Ah, the age gap to baby trap pipeline…classic.
When he was making money everything went into investments. No planning dates on his end…literally nothing. It's the same shit I'm really fed up
Where are you getting that they chose to inconvenience OP? She hasn't said anything like that. It sounds like it's just a case of really bad timing. I didn't find out my graduation date until maybe 6-8 weeks before. Weddings are usually planned much further in advance.
If he's insensitive to you all the time then leave him instead of staying with an asshole who makes you cry
Does that help any
And I would like to say it hurts my heart alot to see someone in this state
First off… this is not your job or place to fix.
From the sounds of it, she was drunk… and wanted you to come over for… you get the vibe.
If you feel the need to tell the husband… that is on you to decide. But if there is a second occurrence of this, you should be addressing in some fashion. Whether you tell her that it is insanely inappropriate for her to call, or you go to the husband and show the call logs.
How does a 21 year old end up with friends with 36/37 year old's anyway?