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Date: October 9, 2022
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So what? The brother is the victim in this story, you do realize that, right?
What the fuck are you talking about? You know nothing about the problems and she provided zero context. You’re just saying shit.
Eh, emotions are there, but it's your choice to say it out loud. I may find another girl's boobs attractive, but I think I'd be an asshole if I said it out loud in front of my gf.
Danger! Danger! Right now I see it as a bonus that you haven’t fully committed to this guy, because he is some combination of mamma’s boy and “not that into you”, and that’s fine if you want something casual, but you have to know that this guy is not commitment material.
Yeah but that’s just shitty people in your life. We all have them, and shitty people aren’t concentrated to a specific gender.
The issue is that in this sub, posters are looking for unbiased feedback, when in reality, in a lot of cases, the feedback they get is incredibly biased.
Honestly, I didn’t read the whole thing. I wouldn’t continue the pregnancy. You’re in a short relationship that’s already showing red flags. You don’t want to be a single parent. So don’t do it! It’s totally ok to say “not yet” for this pregnancy and have an abortion. TOTALLY OK. If he works on things and you guys stay together, you can plan a pregnancy later when you’re ready. Don’t let an accidental pregnancy derail the trajectory you’ve planned for your life and potentially tie you forever to someone potentially abusive.
Crazy making in relationships is a subtle dynamic that can leave you full of self doubt, wondering if you might be going crazy. Crazy making is a form of emotional abuse involving things such as mind games, intended to make you question yourself. It destabilises your confidence and slowly allows the other person to gain more control over you and the relationship.Thoughts such as “Is it just me?”, “Am I imagining things?” and “I am not sure anymore of what is wrong or right” all suggest that you might be in a crazy making relationship.
Crazy making in relationships involves calling in to question another person’s sanity, insisting on their ‘version of reality’ all the while projecting their defective inner landscape onto their target. Crazy makers are abusive individuals who try to convince their partners that they are defective in some way, in this way they make the victim more emotional, more needy or dependent.
Do you experience more self doubt than before, a sense that you used to be happier and more confident than you are now, feeling on edge when in the company of your partner, feeling as if you can’t do anything right, apologising far more than you ever used to, constantly second guessing yourself, finding it harder to make simple decisions, or doubting your perceptions of the world around you?
Yeah let's shame she 22 yo for not following the 'correct order' of things in this super specific and weird scenario that puts her in the middle of a whole bunch of awkward with people she loves.
I personally wouldn’t wanna have sex with my wife after she cheated, could this be something you’re going through? Are you at peace in this marriage? Do you feel loved and cared for? Are you happy? Are you hopeful for the future?
Do what you feel you need to do. You have to do what's best for your kids. What if he got high and neglected the children and they got hurt ? What if he drops a pill and the kids find it ? What if he gets arrested for doing something stupid and you have CPS come ? Or worse ? I hate what if-isms but with addicts/users, it's completely plausable any of these things can happen.
If you think his parents will help, then reach out to them. Your BF needs help, but unless he wants it, things will never change for the better.
Do you have any support systems ? Friends, family, anyone that you can go to for help ? Do you get along with his parents ?
Stop responding 100%
I appreciates everyone's insight. After a talk with my ex, it turns out he views people in a pyramid scheme with him on the top and under him those he cares about, his example and only example was “they can do favors for me and I do favors for them granted we have time to”. And it's a sliding scale that he has no problem pushing someone down a level below someone else in terms of who's important in his in life based on my understanding, what he gets from the relationship of the person.
Did she grow up in a really abusive and argumentative home? Because I grew up in a home like that and it gave me very unhealthy arguing mechanisms. Rather than yell and interrupt people such as my husband, i shut down and start to cry. Other people I know that grew up in homes like this argue like your partner.
Is it feasible for him to visit you? Seeing how you operate as a pair in your “home world” might help shed more clarity on the relationship, as well as letting him meet people who are important to you. You don't want to get swallowed into his life after all, you want to merge both of your lives together.
As for the kids thing – that's something that can only be up to you. Ponder it long and hard. As the parents (esp mothers) in your life for advice. But don't get married unless you're on the same page. Kids aren't something you can compromise on.