Lol stop pretending it's normal to lust after other men while in a monogamous relationship. It only happens when your connection with your SO is not great. If you were properly tuned into each other, you wouldn't be wishing you could flirt with others.
You haven't done anything wrong (yet), but this is a problem that needs to be fixed.
Yeah the fact that she never spends the night really makes me feel wrong now.
She does not because of insecurities, but I have face mine for her. I do not feel is a big sscrifice to do just one night. We sleep in trips, but not in my house.
She does not see other, but she is probably allowing guys make advances on her which I consider cheating. No real proof.
And about sex, well maybe is more. But is not enough. I am the only one who initiate, told her to do it and she told me she could not. I have at most two opportunities per week but she will almost always be too tired or in the period(a long period…). I could be happy with once per week, but she does not make time for sex.
I know I am not in a functional relationship, I am trying to leave but I feel stuck hoping maybe she would change when she is end her exams(this exams are really very hot, and is tru that it make her stressed)
Give him some time. You jumped the gun and broke up before he could break up with you. Communicate more with him and explain why you did it and work on your relationship to make it stronger.
Your daughter is her own person, let her experience stuff by herself. It doesn't seem his hurting her in some way. You haven't included your daughter's age so we can't possibly know how bad it is that she's smoking and drinking, and even if she is underage that's not the end of the world still.
Yeah it's not ideal to be with a bully, but there's also not much you can do to stop her without making her hate you. If someone feels adult enough to enter relationships, let them figure it out by themselves.
Sorry English isn't my first language. What i meant was we have tried, we should try more often. So we tried but never really followed through. Thus far I have been more enthusiastic when it came to actually trying.
Do not cook his food or clean his clothes. Treat him like a roommate and just do things for yourself. You’ve allowed this situation to continue for far too long and he needs to see the consequences. Could you move out? Honestly he doesn’t sound like he’s going to change.
A friend of my ex husband walked into my house while we weren’t home (housemate let her in) and she took 90 30mg IR adderall from my medicine cabinet. She’s a fucking RN. OP’s friend needs to shut her mouth.
I definitely think he had a right to know but it wasn’t your place to tell him. At the most you should have only hinted at it and let him ask her.
As for replying to his question it depends on what the question is.
Lol stop pretending it's normal to lust after other men while in a monogamous relationship. It only happens when your connection with your SO is not great. If you were properly tuned into each other, you wouldn't be wishing you could flirt with others.
You haven't done anything wrong (yet), but this is a problem that needs to be fixed.
Yeah the fact that she never spends the night really makes me feel wrong now.
She does not because of insecurities, but I have face mine for her. I do not feel is a big sscrifice to do just one night. We sleep in trips, but not in my house.
She does not see other, but she is probably allowing guys make advances on her which I consider cheating. No real proof.
And about sex, well maybe is more. But is not enough. I am the only one who initiate, told her to do it and she told me she could not. I have at most two opportunities per week but she will almost always be too tired or in the period(a long period…). I could be happy with once per week, but she does not make time for sex.
I know I am not in a functional relationship, I am trying to leave but I feel stuck hoping maybe she would change when she is end her exams(this exams are really very hot, and is tru that it make her stressed)
If she wasn't compassionate, then yeah, she's not for OP. He needs someone who cares. So yes, if she threw a fit then OP is better off without her.
Give him some time. You jumped the gun and broke up before he could break up with you. Communicate more with him and explain why you did it and work on your relationship to make it stronger.
Yeah, I totally understand why you cut her off, and I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this.
I think the way you handled it with your sister is good: you appreciate the concern but you’re in a good spot now.
Your daughter is her own person, let her experience stuff by herself. It doesn't seem his hurting her in some way. You haven't included your daughter's age so we can't possibly know how bad it is that she's smoking and drinking, and even if she is underage that's not the end of the world still.
Yeah it's not ideal to be with a bully, but there's also not much you can do to stop her without making her hate you. If someone feels adult enough to enter relationships, let them figure it out by themselves.
Sorry English isn't my first language. What i meant was we have tried, we should try more often. So we tried but never really followed through. Thus far I have been more enthusiastic when it came to actually trying.
Do not cook his food or clean his clothes. Treat him like a roommate and just do things for yourself. You’ve allowed this situation to continue for far too long and he needs to see the consequences. Could you move out? Honestly he doesn’t sound like he’s going to change.
Yes, this is really stupid. Sorry.
A friend of my ex husband walked into my house while we weren’t home (housemate let her in) and she took 90 30mg IR adderall from my medicine cabinet. She’s a fucking RN. OP’s friend needs to shut her mouth.