I actually have these little circular lights on the floor of my room I can turn off and on with a remote so that’s actually such a great idea to put it everywhere else which I haven’t thought of. As long as I can see a bit of my surroundings I’m fine so this is perfect thank you!
I view it very fake as well and occasionally actually do enjoy the small talks or updates sometimes so it’s not a big deal for me to do that at least. I don’t actually care or want to have any sort of relationship with them beyond that. I guess I am overthinking it because my mom keeps telling me to do certain things to befriend them or get a good reputation so it does get into my head. My boyfriend’s mom also talks up her game when it comes to dealing with neighbors, so I just assumed this was a norm here as well. I think reputation means a lot to them both so I guess I’ll just ignore it and move on with my life because I don’t care to do that. Thank you this is so much help!
Just re posting my above text (want to make sure folks are aware): I do want to be clear, if the OP is in the US abortion is actually still an option. Abortion is accessible here up to 34 weeks, and is actually relatively easy to access up to 24 or 26 weeks (I mean this only in terms of number of clinics). I don't know if that is something OP is considering but just wanted to set the facts straight in case.
In addition there are abortion funds that will help you pay for travel to one of these clinics if that is what you choose to do and logistics are a barrier for you. If you need more info, feel free to DM me.
I get him wanting some space to clear his head, but if it was proven to be false and slander, then I wouldn’t be sad he wants out.
Sounds like he is the one losing out here and was ready to leave prior to this. This was just the optimal time to pull the plug on the relationship in his eyes.
The male half of the species is notorious for neglecting their health, dental and vision issues, sadly.
This was never more evident than the last time I was at the doctor's to get a very small growth removed near my eye, which fortunately came back benign.
There was an elderly couple who went in before I did.
When my turn came, the doctor was visibly saddened, shaken even.
He shared in sparing terms that the elderly man had a huge growth on his chest that, despite his wife's repeated urging, he had neglected for at least a couple years. We talked about how guys of all ages are so so so reluctant to see the doctor, and ignore clear signs of serious problems before it's too late.
The doctor with his decades of experience was certain it was cancerous and not a friendly, easily removed or treatable type, and it was in fact, his death sentence.
GO TO THE FUCKING DOCTOR people! Take care of your shit, your life may depend on it.
curious…what culture are you from?
I actually have these little circular lights on the floor of my room I can turn off and on with a remote so that’s actually such a great idea to put it everywhere else which I haven’t thought of. As long as I can see a bit of my surroundings I’m fine so this is perfect thank you!
I view it very fake as well and occasionally actually do enjoy the small talks or updates sometimes so it’s not a big deal for me to do that at least. I don’t actually care or want to have any sort of relationship with them beyond that. I guess I am overthinking it because my mom keeps telling me to do certain things to befriend them or get a good reputation so it does get into my head. My boyfriend’s mom also talks up her game when it comes to dealing with neighbors, so I just assumed this was a norm here as well. I think reputation means a lot to them both so I guess I’ll just ignore it and move on with my life because I don’t care to do that. Thank you this is so much help!
Needs to be prosecuted. Think of how many other womens informstion this creep has access too
Just re posting my above text (want to make sure folks are aware): I do want to be clear, if the OP is in the US abortion is actually still an option. Abortion is accessible here up to 34 weeks, and is actually relatively easy to access up to 24 or 26 weeks (I mean this only in terms of number of clinics). I don't know if that is something OP is considering but just wanted to set the facts straight in case.
In addition there are abortion funds that will help you pay for travel to one of these clinics if that is what you choose to do and logistics are a barrier for you. If you need more info, feel free to DM me.
Still, they shouldn't be getting a more expensive house when the interest rates are so high and there's a recession.
I get him wanting some space to clear his head, but if it was proven to be false and slander, then I wouldn’t be sad he wants out.
Sounds like he is the one losing out here and was ready to leave prior to this. This was just the optimal time to pull the plug on the relationship in his eyes.
Good luck getting your girlfriend to believe you, because I don’t.
The male half of the species is notorious for neglecting their health, dental and vision issues, sadly.
This was never more evident than the last time I was at the doctor's to get a very small growth removed near my eye, which fortunately came back benign.
There was an elderly couple who went in before I did.
When my turn came, the doctor was visibly saddened, shaken even.
He shared in sparing terms that the elderly man had a huge growth on his chest that, despite his wife's repeated urging, he had neglected for at least a couple years. We talked about how guys of all ages are so so so reluctant to see the doctor, and ignore clear signs of serious problems before it's too late.
The doctor with his decades of experience was certain it was cancerous and not a friendly, easily removed or treatable type, and it was in fact, his death sentence.
GO TO THE FUCKING DOCTOR people! Take care of your shit, your life may depend on it.