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You sound concerned to help him fit in to the world and relationships. I know someone a bit like that who has an eating disorder; in their case it's kind of secondary after they managed to give up alcohol and weed addictions. He needs help from a professional, but if this is how he copes with life, he may break up with you if you push him on it unfortunately.

What do you get out of being in this relationship other than self doubt??

You're completely spot on that mono-poly is akin to sexuality.

I've never had a closed relationship last longer than a year because every time I ended up feeling trapped and bored, then ending things. Took me a while to figure out why, and I'm a lot happier for it now.

I'm not a mono person. I don't feel jealousy. I can feel scorned, if we've agreed upon a rule and my partner breaks it, but I'd feel the same way whether that was watching ahead on a TV show we were watching together or sleeping with someone. Equally, the entire idea of being mono feels like agreeing to eating the same meal 3x a day forever, it could be my favourite and I'd still feel sick of it before too long.

Trying to coerce someone either way is messed up. Whether trying to tell a mono person that they're wrong and have to put up with it, or telling a poly person that they're wrong and that they have to stay trapped.

You are also right that cheating is just as wrong regardless of being poly. My longest relationship to date, our rule was that we couldn't see anyone other than each other repeatedly (so the emotional component was exclusive). I could go have 100x one night stands, and that was fine, but sleeping with someone as a FWB type deal would be cheating. We write our own rules, but breaking them is still cheating and is still fucked up (on a side note, every rule has to be MUTUALLY agreeable and followed).

Reading through a lot of posts on here, I think mono relationships would kind of benefit from the same discussions you have in a poly one. The number of posts where it's “his female friend keeps touching his face”, “she shared a bed with a guy friend”, “she kissed her female friend and I don't like it” or similar crap. A simple conversation where you agree where you draw the lines would prevent all of those misunderstandings. Even in mono, there's a big grey area.