If you’re not married, separate your finds from his.
Stop doing 90% of the housework. He will never see that you’re doing the bulk and decide on his own to “just help out”. That’s not how guys work. He will take advantage of it for as long as he can, because you have enabled him to not do it.
And the whole making you feel worthless thing is just a little something that insecure abusive partners often do to try to keep you from realizing that you deserve better.
It often doesn't. Reddit has a weird obsession with making sure everyone is the same age when you date. My wife is 8 years older than me and we have a very strong relationship, you just have to find the person who gels with you. That said, this chick sounds entitled, are you sure that's who you want for a partner?
To begin, remember that your sexual boundaries and decisions are entirely valid, and it's perfectly fine to take your time getting comfortable and ready. You should never feel obligated or pressured to have sex with someone simply because they want it.
It's understandable that you felt embarrassed about being a virgin, but it's crucial to remember that there's nothing shameful about it. It's also worth noting that sexual experience in other areas does not always imply previous intercourse.
It is important to be honest and direct with your partner when approaching the conversation.You can explain that you are a virgin and have been hesitant to have sex as a result. Inform him that you are ready to have sex but want to take your time to ensure your comfort and safety.
He should be understanding and patient if he truly cares about you and respects your boundaries. If he continues to put you under pressure or threatens to end the relationship, it could be a sign that he is not respecting your boundaries, and it may be time to reconsider the relationship. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who appreciates and respects you.
My husband gives me piggyback rides
If you’re not married, separate your finds from his.
Stop doing 90% of the housework. He will never see that you’re doing the bulk and decide on his own to “just help out”. That’s not how guys work. He will take advantage of it for as long as he can, because you have enabled him to not do it.
And the whole making you feel worthless thing is just a little something that insecure abusive partners often do to try to keep you from realizing that you deserve better.
NTA. Your gf is unreasonable
It often doesn't. Reddit has a weird obsession with making sure everyone is the same age when you date. My wife is 8 years older than me and we have a very strong relationship, you just have to find the person who gels with you. That said, this chick sounds entitled, are you sure that's who you want for a partner?
To begin, remember that your sexual boundaries and decisions are entirely valid, and it's perfectly fine to take your time getting comfortable and ready. You should never feel obligated or pressured to have sex with someone simply because they want it.
It's understandable that you felt embarrassed about being a virgin, but it's crucial to remember that there's nothing shameful about it. It's also worth noting that sexual experience in other areas does not always imply previous intercourse.
It is important to be honest and direct with your partner when approaching the conversation.You can explain that you are a virgin and have been hesitant to have sex as a result. Inform him that you are ready to have sex but want to take your time to ensure your comfort and safety.
He should be understanding and patient if he truly cares about you and respects your boundaries. If he continues to put you under pressure or threatens to end the relationship, it could be a sign that he is not respecting your boundaries, and it may be time to reconsider the relationship. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who appreciates and respects you.